i feel out of control can som1 help!

[angharad23]

hi everyone im angharad 22yrs.
Iv been married to my husband for 2yrs and we decided to start ttc at end of feb this year. Im feeling so frustrated! Iv had a period in april, may, and june. Was due for july's on the 9th but it didnt show, i took a test and it was negative and now i dont no wat to do! My cervix is high but feels hard wich i no isnt promising. I dont no if i shud test again,or if im not pregnant why havent i had a period? And how do i no wen i will next ovulate?
I feel so downhearted.my sisters hav both got young babies and My friend is currently 4months preg and she conceieved strait away! I no it takes time and im being impaitent but i cant help feeling jealous all the time its driving me mad and i think id benefit from some advice from some ladies here. Thanks ann xxx

 

[confuzzled]

its possibly stress i had the same happen an two weeks later af showed and then my cycles changed around that time, if it hasnt come in a week id go to the gp they might do bloods, r u using opks?

 

[angharad23]

i havent started using ovulation kits yet but wud prob b a good idea. Im just worried that im doing something wrong. Iv had 3 regular period so i assume iv ovulated but jst no luck. Do u think theres any chance of me being pregnant. My lower abdomen and breasts feel tender and iv been really tired, but as i said negative test. I did take it in middle of day and my urine seemed diluted shud i do it again?

 

[JennaLynn]

It absolutely could be stress! Try thinking of it as "how many times" you've tried and not necessarily "how many months" you've been trying for, it really help put things in perspective! And I know how you're feeling about friends being pregnant, I know so many girls including my best friend!! Good luck to you, and I know it's hard and mostly impossible but trybto do other things for the next week and not think of it, like exercise go out to eat hang with friends! Then if it still doesn't arrive, call you dr!

 

[angharad23]

its mad , i thought it wud happen 'just like that' because people even get pregnant by accident! I didnt think of stress but am still clinging onto hope of being pregnant now.