i feel physically drained :(

[lewood88]

im so tired again its untrue, i jus feel so exhausted i was up 4 times last nite on the loo, and i work from 8:30 till 5:00 monday - friday plus trying to get myh house sorted so i can be moved in, its so tireing plus im single and feel like the babys dad jus dont give a flying crap, ive sat back n thought how the hell am i goin to do it, ive been in and out of hospital with stress ....


i feel like my body may shut down anytime soon

 

[darsilver1]

Hey Lewood,
I am sorry you are feeling so exhausted and miserable. Wish I could say it gets better from here but some days you will feel better and others not. I am single also so I know how you feel. Basically it is like everything is your sole responsibility and if things are not done it falls on you. You will find the inner strength to make it, because you have to. Look at this moment as a time to strengthen yourself. You made the ultimate sacrifice that unfortunately your LO father was not strong enough to make. Just remember when you see LO face, all the miserable feelings you are going through now, erases away. I know because I have a 5 yr old son who I raised for some time with his father (until son was 10 mths) and then raised all alone from now on. Take a deep breath and realize that you are only one person and can only do but so much. Do you have any friends or family that is supportive in your life? If so, try and call on them for emotional support (support your LO father should have been giving you). I pray things get better for you mama! It will, you just have to believe. from the USA.

 

[billlumbergh]

i'm the same. mon to fri 8:30 - 5:30. and a few weeks ago i got really bummed out, just being knackered and not sleeping so well. but at the moment i'm doing ok, its like the major exhaustion lifts and you manage fine. i'm up and down to the loo between 4 and 6 times a night, and though its annoying, i'm starting to feel like, hey, so i'm awake but i'm lying down and resting and thats still rest!!

 

[Jenine]

I felt drained at that point too - I have been feeling great so far this week though, (hope I haven't tempted fate here), I am on my last week before maternity though, so I'm also excited, but feel as though I have less aches and pains somehow.

Baby is being more active, which seems weird as I thought she'd be less active with less space, but she's really going for it in there.

Hang in there hun, and if you feel really yucky, stay in bed and ring in sick - catch up on some rest if you really need it. Look after yourself, your baby needs you to be in good form. xx

 

[ttcnewbie123]

Hope you start feeling better soon, sorry to say it but Im still feeling drained now, Im hoping to get a burst of energy soon x

 

[lewood88]

thanks girls, before i was pregnant i was a very active person always up and about but since bein pregnant its killin me to dragg myself out of bed most the time i really cud cry, my mom is supportive and so is my auntie and they av both been my rock but its jus do hard when you in this on your own xxx

 

[Sarah24]

The joy of being pregnant eh? : ( take all the support you can don't take this burden alone. Chin up hun stay strong xxx