i feel so bad sometimes :/

[kimmym]

Most of the time i can stop myself before i cry or get upset over stupid things. Ive been learning common sense and can usually laugh at the things that send me into tears.
but when i get angry theres just no stopping me :/ its driving me crazy! I feel so awful for OH but at the same time sometimes he just says all the wrong things. I need to get more control over these hormones as anger is something ive always tried to avoid.
how are you all coping?

 

[Mrsmac02]

Oh hun, sorry you're feeling a bit teary and angry. But don't beat yourself up about it - when the hormones strike, there's no stopping em no matter how hard you try!

Have you say OH down to chat about it? Maybe if he knows what ticks you off there will be less of a chance you'll lose it?

I know that when I am on edge, it doesn't matter who says what - anything can set me off.

Not sure how far along you are but I'm almost 14 weeks now and I've found I'm a bit calmer so hopefully it will get better for you too xx

 

[Brightstarshi]

((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))it will pass xxx

 

[kimmym]

Awh thankyou.

I'm about 12 weeks so hopefully it goes away soon.
its just certainly hard to handle until then. He knows and he doesnt take it personally.hes just one of those people that doesnt always think before he says things. And im apparantly now one of those people that takes those things all wrong.

 

[Georgia7]

I'm 12 weeks and exactly the same with my OH. He says all the wrong things and I just flip. Even when he says sorry I'm still so angry and just go on and on shouting and hysterically crying. Later on I think about it and think... Well what was all that about but I can't help it! It's so frustrating hah x

 

[MorganEvans]

I feel your pain. Used to got angry over simple things, especially before ovulation and during my pregnancy, the husband and i were sometimes even forced to sleep in separate rooms. Nowadays i just walk away, instead of letting the anger pour out which of course feels much better and easier. Its very difficult to learn, but once you master it.. For me it saved my marriage

 

[Lilahs Mum]

Yep gotta love those hormones! I went from 0 to mega b#$ch in 2 seconds last night when hubby wouldn't get the message to dry the dishes after I handed him a tea towel!!?? Luckily for him he kept quiet and later I gave him a big hug and said sorry. He's been through this before so I think he knows how to handle it better. Hopefully I learn too in the next few weeks! You just need to ride that rollercoaster and try not to stress too much, it wont last forever.

 

[kimmym]

Thankyou for all your input.i'm glad its no joke and im not alone and that hormones really do get to a lot of us.
on the bright side atleast now i realize (when im not too busy yelling or crying) how lucky i am and how much he truely loves me to be able to put up with me and be as patient as he is.
i was mad him lastnight and shoved him out the door to go to work but he refused to leave until he was able to kiss me and tell me he loves me. And of course that snapped me out of my anger and instead turned it to tears. UGH! ;(
it takes a lot to live with some thats constantly getting mad over stupid things,but my normal self is thankful for it.