I gave birth, how can he not be a grandchild!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Wobbles]

What a bitch!

I did think maybe trying to block the pain ....then I read your second post! I vote slap Nah your doing well as I lose my temper quite quickly and would have but your holding your head up Jacky your being strong against the cruel words of your MIL.

I think your husband needs a word with his mother!!!!

*Hugs* x x

 

[sam's mum]

What a bitch!

I did think maybe trying to block the pain ....then I read your second post! I vote slap Nah your doing well as I lose my temper quite quickly and would have but your holding your head up Jacky your being strong against the cruel words of your MIL.

I think your husband needs a word with his mother!!!!

*Hugs* x x

I agree that he should have a word. Thought I'd give them the benefit of the doubt in my first post but I take it all back after your second post. You do not deserve to be treated like that What a bitch

Thinking of you, and I hope you get your BFP soon x

 

[dizzy65]

aww that is so sad, thats horrible

 

[cuddles314]

I think it's shocking that your MIL should behave in such a way towards you. Stay strong hun, and just her stupid, insensitive comments.
xx

 

[Loo]

Gosh - your MIL's comment was out of order and down right awful! By no means do I want to sound sympathetic to her...but I think she is just expressing her pain. She lost a grandchild (whether she reconises that or not) and instead of being a loving and supportive MIL, she is lashing out, thinking only about herself and behaving selfishly, without a thought for you.

Ignore her comments, you deserve love and support at the moment. You have been amazingly strong and I don't think I could have coped with what you've been through. I also couldn't have coped keeping my mouth shut when she said that...

xx

 

[superp123]

I am so sorry that you're going through this, I'm not sure what to say but I'm listening and I want to give you
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[xXx Vamp xXx]

I did think the other ladies may have been right at first and thought they may find it hard to talk about, but after that comment, I'd have wanted to slap the MIL too That's just downright rude!

 

[jacky24]

Thanks Ladies.

I havn't got the courage together yet to talk to MIL as i am very emotional, and when i am emotional i tend to be very harsh. So i am going to try and get everything into perspective and then speak to MIL...

Or

Maby i should send her an e-mail with how i feel and tell her what she has been doing isn't right towards me.???

What do you girls think as i might just her..

 

[akamummy]

sweets Iam sorry!

 

[sammie18]

Aww Im sorry They should atleast mention him, poor thing

 

[LittleBee]

i'm so sorry for your loss Jackie24...of course your baby matters..in your heart he'll always be there for you and for the others. Lots of

 

[sam's mum]

I think an email is a great idea - it'll let you explain exactly how you feel without her trying to interrupt you x

 

[Gems]

xx

 

[Always&4ever]

*huge hugs* I wish I knew what to say

 

[celine]

IM so sorry sometimes people can be so inconsiderate, he will always be there first grandchild wether they choose to acknoweldge it or not. As someone else suggested, I think an email to let them know how they made you feel is a good idea.

*hugz*

 

[xXDonnaXx]

x

 

[Carlyanne15]

I'm sure they havent forgotten honey

x

 

[xXx Vamp xXx]

I think the email is a good idea too hunnie, good luck xXx

 

[Logiebear]

I'm sorry the in laws seem to need reminding of Cj hun. Tell them and see what happens xxx

 

[superp123]

just checking in on you. Have you told the wicked witch where to get off? I certainly hope so, she seems like a cruel, miserable woman. Still thinking of you hun.
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