I guess I belong here now....

[Waiting2bMommy]

My husband and I have been together almost 5 years... we have recently split and this morning he informed me (through text) that he has already filed for divorce and I should receive my papers this coming week... I'm pretty devastated. I have a 17 month old and i'm 12 weeks pregnant. I'm pretty sure there is another woman involved. I can't believe i'm going to be raising two kids alone.. I think i'm still slightly in shock. I am still so in love with my husband even after all he has done to hurt me. I know things will get easier but right now my whole world is turned upside down. Mostly i'm sad for my children. He doesn't care about the new baby, or my son... since I moved home he doesn't call or talk to him at all... my son walks around with his play cell phone and 'talks' to his 'daddy' all day long... he is missing him so much and my soon to be ex-husband doesn't make even one small effort... i'm so sad for my kids and the loss of our family... I hope this pain gets easier cause right now I'm dying inside.

 

[Chellxx]

Oh my lively I am so sorry you're going through this especially being pregnant as well. I don't really have much I can say or do but stay strong and you will get through it. I'll send you some hugs xxxx

 

[tooyoung]

That is so sad. I'm sorry you are going through all of this. To text you with that news is just terrible and cruel. It almost made me cry when you said your son is walking around with his play phone and is talking to his daddy.
I hope things get better for you.

 

[SilasLove]

Huge

I know you are hurting very badly right now, but I just want to tell you that you WILL make it through this. I know things seem so overwhelming right now, but you will do an AMAZING job of taking care of your children! It will always be a battle, because being alone is not easy. Trying to explain to your children why their father is not around will not be easy, but all you can do is do your best for your children. xx

 

[Waiting2bMommy]

Thanks for all the kind words today has been an awful day.

 

[Blue_star]

Thanks for all the kind words today has been an awful day.

I hope things get better for you eventually, i'm very sorry .. I always used to think if I was married to my FOB before I got pregnant he would not have left me pregnant and dropped all contact with me. But it seems even married men can do these kinds of things and I know it's a very horrible feeling.

I hope you have some good friends and family to talk too and that things eventually turn around for you! I still love my FOB and am 22 weeks pregnant he left me at the start of this month and I haven't heard from him since.

 

[Waiting2bMommy]

I think it's worse being married we have a house together, cars ect and now a divorce and custody battle over the kids is going to be a massive heartache.

 

[Dezireey]

I'm so sorry he has done this to you, what a horrible thing to ignore his child like that after being married and living together. Big hugs for you sweetie xx

I hope he gets a dose of his own painful medicine one day and realises what pain he has caused. You just be kind to yourself through this difficult time and remember that whatever happens, you will always have your lovely children and they love their Mummy loads. If you are worried he will claim custody or something then start documenting the fact that he has not contacted your little one or made any effort. Won't go down well in court - married man just abandoning his family.

Chin up and make sure you get support wherever you need it.

 

[Loveya]

I'm so sorry to hear that

You will get through this, I know that may seem difficult to believe right now but you will. Just make sure you are there for your son as it's going to be difficult for him with the split of his parents.

I agree with Dezireey if you are worried about him claiming custody document the fact he is bascially ignoring your son.

Good luck with this and I'm sorry this has happened to you.

 

[Natsku]

Big You can always PM me if you need to chat someone

 

[Laura2919]

I'm sorry to hear this hun. If there is someone else involved then he really hasn't done this the best way, being honest from the start would have been hard but in the long run would have worked out for the best.
It does get easier, it really does. It might not seem like it but it does and you will be looking back and remembering this.

 

[babygemz]

Aaww i hope he get's what he deserves ( a big kick in the nuts at least! ) Some ment
just don't know how to be MEN. At least you have a gorgeous little one from it and another one on the way! Concentrate on the children and you won't go far wrong, once the feelings for him have disolved you will be able to share all the feelings with another man, who will be a MAN! Lots of hugs xx