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mummyosborne

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Me and my partner split up a few weeks ago, just before our three year anniversary, and i found out the week after that im pregnant again, i dont know how i feel about anything right now, i just feel such a mess and im trying to hold it together for my LO, all smiles and everythings fine during the day and then as soon as she goes to bed i just get so sad, and i dont know what to do :( he doesnt think i should have this baby, but some really bad pain and a little bleeding meant i was taken for an emergency scan, so ive already seen my baby and have a picture in my purse :( sorry for the rambling i just dont know how im going to cope, i never thought id be a single parent
 
xxx

do you think you and him will be able to work it out - counselling or something?? it seems a little rash to throw away 3 years of married with no explaination??

if not - being a single mum is not an impossible task, its tough, and i only have the one, but not impossible.

i'm not really too sure what to advise as i think there may be still a chance you and your DH can work it out, and i really really hope that is the case! if not, i'll still be here and you can ask me anything you want to help xxxxxxx
 
He says he doesnt love me anymore, i dont really know how to cope with that information, i feel so lied to, i knew things were difficult between us, but we've had one hell of a tough year. I think that with a bit of time and effort to spend time just the two of us we could get back on track, but he seems to think theres no going back, i just dont know what to do, i dont know how to live without him anymore :/
 
I wasn't married, but I just found out I am pregnant, and BF is MIA now. I had an ex tell me he didn't love me anymore, and I know how horrible that feels :( I'm here for you if you ever need someone to talk to <3
 
awww if there is no going bk then its too the future am a single mum to 4 but 3 at home and it can be haard but a love it the kids dad plays a good role in there life and we both are much happier,

my ex also feel out off love with me and i did 2 with him we just didnt relise aand tried to make it work for the kids but we both were unhappy.

best thing we did it his hard at first but it will get better and easier.
 
I know it's easy to say at the moment but it does get easier :hugs: xx
 

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