I guess I will find another forum

[stpierrecog]

I posted 3 times and no one responds. I guess you have to be a groupie in this forum. I am not your groupie so I will leave rather than be ignored

 

[Arcanegirl]

You need to give it time for people to read and reply, longer than an hour or two Dont forget it is the holiday season, people are concentrating on their families and the forum tends to be quieter with less people online.

 

[MrsCompass]

Hi Stpierre - a lot of the ladies are very supportive and I wouldn't know what I'd do without them. But with the holidays, I find that it's quieter around here. I agree with Arcanegirl.

 

[Armywife84]

Correction, on your third post in LTTC you got answers. When you posted in TTC #1 and 2WW, you received 0 answers. A lot of LTTCers stay out of TTC and the 2WW.

I get sore boobs all the time before AF or at least convince myself I do. When you're LTTC symptom spotting each month is useless. Everything is or potentially is a symptom. In reality, none of that is relevant..only what your HPt says.

I also echo the other women in why you haven't had responses or as many as you would like. Perhaps you should take the advice of what one LTTCer said and post your question in first Tri.

 

[wonderstars]

There are so many of us that have long gone beyond the symptom spotting stage that it's difficult to remember what to look for. When I first came on I really had to wander the forum to find which suited me best. That's the lovely part of this site, there's always a place you fit.

 

[Lisa92881]

Sorry you aren't feeling the love. Stick around, I promise you will. It really is a great site!

 

[NavyWife84]

I agree with the girls above. While I am friends with a lot of the ladies on here, I don't have groupies. I answer when I can relate to a post. I don't symptom spot, so I cant really help you out. Btw...I haven't even seen your original post but am answering off of what the other ladies have said.

Also...you posted a couple of hours ago and have refieved 9 posts...I don't get that in a few days sometimes.

 

[tonibzac]

I agree with the others but find it so childish when people put posts like this. If you don't like it, leave. If you want support, advice and a place to rant then wait for a reply. No need to throw your toys out the pram!

 

[BearsMummy]

I'm sorry you feel that way.

But if your going to leave, then just leave, there is no need to leave an insulting parting post!

Sometimes people just don't have answers, or someone has already replied with the same answer, so would you rather have one or two informative replies, or is it more important to you that you have many many replies?

You won't make many friends here with that attitude honey.

Anyway, I wish you luck with your journey.

 

[phoenixrose]

I think we should all let this thread go to page 2, we have better things to talk about.

 

[lian_83]

I posted 3 times and no one responds. I guess you have to be a groupie in this forum. I am not your groupie so I will leave rather than be ignored

Hi hun, sorry u feel that way.. I'm LTTC#1 and when I say long term TTC, it's that LONG!! Also, I'm single now and I also feel like I'm troubling my married buddies for answers because I really don't have alot of things to do during the holidays.

What is your question, btw?? Well to u!

 

[zanDark]

I'm sorry you feel that way!

I see you posted in TTC and the two week wait...those boards tend to get a lot of people and move really fast.

In LTTTC women don't really symptom spot because we've all done it for years lol I guess that's why most people can't relate even tho your thread did get answers to answer your question I get heavy breasts and sore nipples most months before AF....but symptoms vary every month and for your own sanity I suggest you try an HPT a couple of days before AF instead of symptom spotting since it's very easy to convince yourself that you're having symptoms you never had before

good luck