I hate bank holidays

[babybaillie]

LO went to her dads on fri as per usual. Due to come back yday. My ex called on sat nite askin what i was up to etc. Said i was gonna go to a car boot sale on sun. I said id collect LO if that was ok take her with me, then drop her back for him to take her to horse riding. When i went to collect her he asked if he could come too. I said yes and we got on great. Ended up back at his place and he dragged me up to bed. I said i didnt wanna sleep with him unless we were back together.Anyway we ended up sleeping together. Then he took her to horse riding and sent a text saying he was goin away in d caravan with LO and would drop her off on tues. I feel so used. He new i had plans to take LO out for the day today and she has swimming lessons tonite. WHy do i always let him do this to me.

 

[tinkabells]

Oh we all do it, we cant help but still fall for there charms, maybe when you go and collect her from now on, dont go into the house wait for her on the doorstep, that way you can say your want her to get be ready when you come and get her, dont want her seeing you both going to bed together and getting mixed signals? xxx

 

[Perdita]

We're all human and can give in but tinkabell is right, try not to get into the situation where temptation is there and it's harder to get away!! He does seem to be manipulating you and that isn't good for you or the little one.

 

[Dinoslass]

Yes, I agree, try not to get to close to him. Keep contact over the phone and if you drop LO off or pick her up stay putside and make it as brief as possile. Though it must be hard. Also try to remember how you feel now, perhaps that helps. Good luck anyways. Must be awful to feel used like that.

 

[purpledahlia]

yup i agree with the others, stay strong!

 

[xxannxx]

I have to agree with others as well. You need to try and keep temptation to a minimum (easier said than done i know), it def sounds like he's manipulating the situation, he knows how you feel, and isn't being fair leading you on like that. Stay strong