I hate hormones! TMI included

[Mumma2B2010]

I'm quite a naturally sexual person and I've now gone 20 weeks without any sexual contact, today I plucked up the courage to ask a girl who fancied me if she wanted to go out and see where it lead to. She then said 'Not while you're pregnant' while it's personal preference I felt personally distraught and I actually collapsed on my bed crying. I have NEVER felt this unattractive EVER. I know sex isn't everything when pregnant but I would love something to happen right now. I can't stop crying and thinking it's my fault for wanting too much. But I'm so hormonal and right now all I want is some affection and something so I know I'm still attractive to other people.

 

[Bride2Be]

I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling bad about things

It's natural to feel unattractive while pregnant, but it doesn't mean that you are! I'm sure that many people have been in the situation that you are in and it's not because they're unattractive, I think it's just that people in general are uncomfortable about sex with a pregnant woman.

I know that some people thought that having sex or doing sexual things might hurt the baby while others are uncomfortable doing it because of the presence of another person/entity. Those feelings/misconceptions are usually in younger people.

Don't worry about being unattractive! I'm sure that you are very beautiful!

 

[QuintinsMommy]

how rude of her to say that! just wait till she (if she ever does) have kids!
anyway, some people find pregnancy a turn off but don't worry some think its super sexy!
good luck hun

 

[Eskimobabys]

you'd be surprised how many ppl(mostly guys) find pregnant women attractive! my DH cant get enough of my new craves lol even tho the one BIG crave (my bump) gets in the way! im sure ur a total milf!..or Pilf lol

 

[pinkribbon]

I know that feeling. My OH avoids me like the plague at the moment, can't seem to interest him at all...