Mummy2Asher
mummy to 2 boys!
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i just got back from my mums from spending an hour there....
i just had enough of my mums bf!!!
he is so rude and full of himself!
we have never got along, when i lived there he was horrible and then kicked me out when i was pregnant and my mum just stood by and sides with him like she always does!
anyway we popped round today becuase my godmother is there, and ash was playing with my mums bf and it was sooo violent! throwing things and hitting, kicking etc....(i dont allow that sort of play)
i told asher no and he wasnt aloud to hit and do things like that and my mums bf just ignored me and carried on!
after another 15mins and 2 more warnings i tell ash 'right, were going'
ash was crying and i explain to everyone hes really hyper and not listening to me and being naughty, to which my mums bf replies 'were only playing, you just go home and leave ash here'
what the hell!!!!! why would i leave my son?! why?! i never leave my son unless it was for work and i was leaving becuase he was naughty, my mums bf thinks he knows everything and is always right and he doesnt even have children!!!!
i HATE him being around my son and have decided from today hes not going to be.
im soooooooooo fuming!! we dont get along, never has, he ignores me or insults me so how dare he tell me how to parent!!!
i feel so lost at the moment, ive fallen out with all my family at the moment and i dont know what to do, i feel like just cutting ties with them. they dont help, support or anything. :'(
on top of that my sons FOB was meant to come and see ash today but he turned up with no car seat and yelling i was being unreasonable but my son isnt going in a car with no carseat and he yelled, swore and left and didnt end up seeing my son AGAIN.
great day today is.....
i just had enough of my mums bf!!!
he is so rude and full of himself!
we have never got along, when i lived there he was horrible and then kicked me out when i was pregnant and my mum just stood by and sides with him like she always does!
anyway we popped round today becuase my godmother is there, and ash was playing with my mums bf and it was sooo violent! throwing things and hitting, kicking etc....(i dont allow that sort of play)
i told asher no and he wasnt aloud to hit and do things like that and my mums bf just ignored me and carried on!
after another 15mins and 2 more warnings i tell ash 'right, were going'
ash was crying and i explain to everyone hes really hyper and not listening to me and being naughty, to which my mums bf replies 'were only playing, you just go home and leave ash here'
what the hell!!!!! why would i leave my son?! why?! i never leave my son unless it was for work and i was leaving becuase he was naughty, my mums bf thinks he knows everything and is always right and he doesnt even have children!!!!
i HATE him being around my son and have decided from today hes not going to be.
im soooooooooo fuming!! we dont get along, never has, he ignores me or insults me so how dare he tell me how to parent!!!
i feel so lost at the moment, ive fallen out with all my family at the moment and i dont know what to do, i feel like just cutting ties with them. they dont help, support or anything. :'(
on top of that my sons FOB was meant to come and see ash today but he turned up with no car seat and yelling i was being unreasonable but my son isnt going in a car with no carseat and he yelled, swore and left and didnt end up seeing my son AGAIN.
great day today is.....
