I have a feeling..

[Serene123]

I'm going to lose baby.
I've never felt like this.
Bleeding, pains, everything,
I've always thought "no, this will be O.K."
I'm scared and I don't even know why.
Hormones maybe?

I miss seeing buba every two weeks!

 

[AquaDementia]

Toria, is everything ok?

 

[Serene123]

I didn't think so. The doctor at the hospital didn't seem to care too much about the baby. As soon as he thought I had an infection he wasn't bothered atall. I just don't feel like it's going to be O.K. anymore ! Maybe I'm being paranoid

 

[AquaDementia]

are you still bleeding or something? what sort of infection did he say it was?

 

[Serene123]

The bleeding stopped but I have the worse pain ever in my stomach. It made me sick 6 times in half hour! He said I have an infection (not which one) and that if I hadn't have seen him tonight I would've woken up with a fever and probably shivvering. I wasn't particularly worried about my health, I just want to know if babies O.K. I might ring my midwife tomorrow and see what she says. Feels like as soon as you reach the second tri they just assume everything will be O.K. Shouldn't they have checked? Especially with my history of bleeding and cramps and stuff? Atleast for the heartbeat?

 

[AquaDementia]

they definitely should have checked the HB.
Seems like he didn't really care. Call your midwife. Hopefully it is nothing.

 

[Serene123]

Yeah I'll ring my midwife, explain what's been happening and ask if she can arrange for someone to just check stuffs O.K. All this worrying can't be doing much good. On the plus side as soon as OH realised I was in pain the fact we'd been arguing for an hour didn't seem to matter anymore LOL

 

[ab2401]

I'm really sorry to hear your having issues. I had a MC almost two years a go and I know what its like to be so scared. The bleeding thing really worries me. I know this is going to sound crazy but try not to stress out to much, right now your body is going wack and the more stress you have the worse it will get.

I would say screw that doc. and go straight to a different Hospitals EM to find out whats really going on!

That makes me really mad that they seemed so careless. ERRRRR.....

 

[luckyme225]

Hope your pain is going away Hopefully the doc put you on something for the infection. Make sure you call you midwife asap, I would think she would be understanding that you want to be checked out after bleeding and being in pain. Keep us updated.

 

[goldlion]

They should've at least listened for the heartbeat to put your mind at ease. It's just a good thing you went in time.
I'm sure bubs will be healthy and safe, don't stress too much over it. You'll drive yourself mad. When do you next have a scan?

 

[xCherylx]

Hope your ok
Im a paranoid first timer and I brought an Angel Sounds Doppler so I can hear the heartbeart when I think there is something wrong. It's the best thing I have brought so far! x

 

[ablaze]

toriaaa, im sorry but im gonna be kinds blunt here,

you need to calm down! you are stressing waaaaay to much which will not be good for yourself or your baby, if the doctor had any concern he would have checked it out, you are stressing over everything and you are going to make yourself ill!!

try to enjoy your pregnancy!

 

[JamieX]

I have a friend, she was in total pain like you did in her second tri, it was due to urine infection, she did recover and baby was fine....

I hope you will feel better soon, pls call your MW tomorrow....

 

[Tezzy]

i agree with yvanne hun... try not to stress out

 

[AquaDementia]

did you end up going to the doctor's?

 

[Firsttimer]

I would go crazy without my doppler it keeps my mind at rest i listen to it everynight for a couple of mins its great

 

[xCherylx]

Same here, it really helps to reassure you that everything is ok

 

[Jenny]

If the doctor didn't think there was anything wrong, then there shouldn't be. I hope your doing ok and that the pain is gone. Try to relax hon, I'm sure things are ok.

 

[Wobbles]

First baby and pregnancy lost of questions etc etc but Yvanne is right your going to make yourself ill hun. Try to relax/find something that relaxes you.

Hope you feel brighter soon

 

[Serene123]

I do feel abit better today. I was so sick and so tired yesterday I don't think I was being very rational. Thanks guysss