I have endometriosis and got a BFP on first cycle of ttc!!!

[macksmack]

Don't give up hope if you have endometriosis and you are ttc and think it will never happen.... I got my BFP last night after just one cycle of ttc. I am in shock but I am so glad that I can share something positive. My endo is quite serious and I was told taht I would have trouble conceiving. Not true! Good luck xxx

 

[CurlySue]

I don't really know what to say to that.

 

[Alexas Mommy]

Congrats! I am sure this will give some people hope!

 

[CurlySue]

Hmm. All it does is make me feel depressed, to be honest, rather than hopeful - me with Grade 2 endo and coming up to three years off the pill. Maybe I am in a minority, I don't know, but we are all long termers, in here, and people who get their BFP in their first month are people a lot of us generally try to avoid, hence staying away from the BFP boards.

But, congrats, anyway. I know you mean well. Its just how I feel. The reason we are in here is because we CAN'T get one month BFPs and we ARE struggling.

Just sucks to be unlucky.

 

[macksmack]

Aww I am sorry, I didn't mean to make you more depressed, I guess that it was insensitive of me. I just thought maybe someone with long-term endo might see it and feel hopeful, I got the long-term bit mixed up.

Good luck ttc xx

 

[CurlySue]

Nah it just made me feel kind of shit to be honest, in a "why the eff not me?" kind of way.

Then I started questioning the unfairness of the world and...well, it's not pretty. It's why I stay away from the BFP boards unless I want to hurt myself.

Like I said, it might just be me. But, I am about to get AF for probably the 35th time since stopping the pill (granted, not TTC the entire time but not one BFP at all) and I am feeling rather raw. It may well be helpful to others though. And, its good that you are pregnant. Etc.

Oh, I don't know. All of the other girls are a welcoming bunch, etc, but this is our safe haven, here. I understand you meant no harm but try to imagine what it's like for us. Some of us have waited years. You were lucky to not have to wait at all. That will really sting some of us rather than give hope. Will make us wonder, why not us?

 

[JASMAK]

I am glad that you had no difficulty. A co-worker of mine has it quite severly-got pregnant no problem. My sister's, sister-in-law, who LOVES kids...never got pregnant and actually had to have a hysterectomy. Life can be devestating. Congrats on your BFP all the same.

 

[faye38]

Nah it just made me feel kind of shit to be honest, in a "why the eff not me?" kind of way.

Then I started questioning the unfairness of the world and...well, it's not pretty. It's why I stay away from the BFP boards unless I want to hurt myself.

Like I said, it might just be me. But, I am about to get AF for probably the 35th time since stopping the pill and I am feeling rather raw. It may well be helpful to others though. And, its good that you are pregnant. Etc.

Oh, I don't know. All of the other girls are a welcoming bunch, etc, but this is our safe haven, here. I understand you meant no harm but try to imagine what it's like for us. Some of us have waited years. You were lucky to not have to wait at all. That will really sting some of us rather than give hope. Will make us wonder, why not us?

i no how you feel chick

 

[Suz]

Congrats on your BFP.... But probably not the best forum to post about it. Its really hard for a majority of us LTTTCers to hear when people get their BFPs on their first month trying.... Its kinda like rubbing salt in a cut. It stings...

Not trying to make you feel bad... Congrats again and welcome to BnB.

 

[StirCrazy]

Congrats 'n' all that... but I think you were out of order posting this in the Long term trying to conceive forum - Didn't go down well at all.

Moved to BFP Announcements.

 

[Wobbles]

EEK!!!!

I really didn't think that was nice to post in our long term trying to conceive section It was quite insensitive and unthoughtful of you not only that a new member! You may have this endos and were lucky enough for it not to cause you problems but others aren't so fortunate to brag the same luck & I'm not sure many would have anyway where you did!

I have moved this to the BFP announcements section!

 

[CurlySue]

Thanks for moving this here. People will be more supportive here and can offer congratulations without a 'but' which is always nice.

 

[tansey]

Congrats!

 

[NickyT75]

Congratulations x

 

[dan-o]

Congratulations, you are very very lucky indeed!!

Enjoy you pregnancy, I hope to join you soon, I'm testing on the 19th, wish me luck!!!! xx

 

[amslou]

Wow congrats that's ace news!

 

[bird24]

I have mild endo and have been trying for 9 months

made me feel bit crap too but then its not your fault at all and you should be over the moon with your BFP!!!

Congrats!!!

xxx

 

[SJK]

congrats x

 

[Sovereign]

Yay, congratulations!!!! x

 

[lynz]

congrats on your