I just had the worst day...

[jaytee]

aww.. I'm sorry to hear u had a bad day. I hope your day gets better!

Sometimes people who have is made and have no problems getting pregnant forget that other people aren't as fortunate.

Hugs Hugs!

 

[Mynxie]

oh sweetheart, I'm so sory to hear how awful your day had been

 

[Helen]

God that's terrible! Some people have absolutely no idea!

Hope you got a lovely hug from your DH.... here's another one

 

[FJL]

Thanks girls.

DH got home not long after I posted this thread and he knew straight away that something was wrong. I went and sat on his lap and bawled my eyes out and told him everything. He just cuddled me for ages tell me how I didn't deserve that and that those bitches have no idea what we're going through, that he loves me to death and how angry he was that they said those things and upset me so much.

He made me feel safe again and a billion times better. I'd be so lost without my DH!!!

Then he made me lay down so he could talk to our little bean and tell him/her that some nasty ladies made Mummy upset today and not to be scared because Daddy won't let it happen again!!

At work we sit around for a cup of tea and have a chat, even chat away during basic surgeries and things and talk about our lives and family etc. I guess I made the mistake of saying too much and perhaps making my boss feel that she had the right to comment how and when she wanted. I've decided that now they will know the bare minimum and from then on the subject will be changed. Not going through that again.

I know that pre IVF those comments would have upset me but absolutely nothing like they did yesterday...it really hit me.

And for once the weight gain comment has certainly made me lose my appetite...I hate how much weight i've gained but as if people don't know that I know i've put on weight!!! God, I would NEVER say that to someone!!!

Thanks for all your support girls xx

 

[NeyNey]

Oh honey, I'm sorry I missed this yesterday - I hope you're doing ok

 

[Vickie]

 

[maz]

 

[Helen]

Aw your DH is a superstar!

 

[Beckic]

Could l I borrow your DH to give mine some lessons in how to be perfect please?

So glad that you have each other to get you through this - crossing everything for you both.

BX x x

 

[Schmelly]

I've just read your thread and was nearly crying myself. I can't express how much I felt for you and couldn't believe my eyes at what I was reading. People can say the most insensitive things, although I'm shocked that women in such a caring profession could be such emotional planks.

I'm really sorry, hun, but I'm really glad DH was such a superstar.

Big big for you xxx

 

[TrixieLox]

How bloody insensitive!Sorry u had to go thru that hon.x