"I know it'l all be worth it but..." - feel free to join my moan!

[rubycrumble]

I know that when bubbs arrived this 9 months will seem so worth it but in the mean time I am sick of -

1. Feeling permenantly uncomfortable
2. People saying "how big are you?!" - BUGGER OFF!!!
3. Constipation - my "movements" are now a daily source of interest between me and hubbi.
4. People telling me to get a move on with nursery etc - you try decorating when you feel like you've been hit by a bus.
5. Looking at a menu and immediatley having to discount a million things i'm not allowed.
6. Readin/seeing/or being told about glowing pregnant women who ran marathons/climbed mountains/worked down mines up until their due date when I am struggling to get the enthusiasm to get dressed in the morning. Bully for them.

There my guilty confession of how I really feel right now.

 

[InvisibleRain]

I hear you babe, except Looking at a menu and immediatley having to discount a million things i'm not allowed.....
But i understand, just got to rise above it hun... because it WILL be worth it 33 *cuddles* but i can relate

 

[joyfulsoul]

Ohhh I like this thread -

1. Waking up around 8 times a night to go for a wee
2. Feeling tired all the time and feeling guilty about leaving my OH downstairs all alone on a weekend because I need to go to bed at 8pm lol
3. Having a nice glass of wine
4. Tanning
5. People saying I have a little bump but my face is getting chubby
6. Travelling to london and worrying someone is OK to knock my bump every 5 mins
7. Not being able to sleep on my back
8. Not being able to exercise to the extreme lol

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

I am with you here hon This is my last pregnancy and I by no mean want to wish it away but truly if this was my 1st pregnancy I def wouldnt be tempted to have any more babies

My list of complaints...am sure I have probably forgotten something!

1. I never thought I would become so accustomed with the toilet basin
2. So fed up of people telling me my pregnancy isnt going fast enough and can I hurry it up How do they think I feel
3. I am only 17wks and have so far spent 5 weeks and counting of this time with numerous infections....from bladder to throat and now viral
4. Blooming my hair is like straw when its normally lovely and shiny and my skin has terrible acne....I swear you could play a game of dot to dot with my urrrrrrgh spots!
6. If anyone else tells me I look rough/pale/no-colour/pasty white I just might smack them!
5. Yesterday I had a GTT........pure torture in itself I mean us pregnant ladies have enough to endure but yesterdays experience truly took the biscuit and I may have to repeat it at 26wks too
6. No one asks you if you are ok anymore or asks how you are! They just expect you to say `of course am not am pregnant` so they dont bother asking you!

My baby is very very very much wanted but I feel like I cant be myself anymore

 

[huntjump1989]

I dont want to be friends with the tiddy bowl man anymore spending hours trying to poo or multiple trips to throw up.

Im tierd of hearing your throwing up again! when are you going to stop that....like i can help it just flip the switch and no more throwing up and nasea

Tierd of hearing all the things that i dont do now that im pregnant and sick all the time ( cook, clean, eat ) and getting harped at about it... im not the only one that live in this house!

Im tiered of feeling like im useless all the sudden and a burden

....wow thanks this made me feel better to rant

 

[mislaww]

I don't even want to go through the long list of complaints I have. Grrrrrrr. I hate being pregnant. I mean, blah blah blah, miracle of life, so on and so forth, but this SUCKS. I echo EVERYONE's complaints, except DH and I don't talk about my poo.

 

[MissFox]

I hate that I have the only job and DH STILL expects me to come home at 10pm, cook him dinner and clean up the house.

I hate that my shoulder is all out of wack from being prego and it's painful
I hate that my Dr. accused me of wanting pain pills because of my shoulder- physical therapy was what I was hoping for. I woudn't take anything anyways!!!

I hate that AT THIS MOMENT the baby is LOVING my bladder. Just peed- 2x. (PS: I do Kegels... so why is this happening still?!)

I hate that DH thinks I'll be working through the entire month of March (I'm due April 7)

THanks that felt good!

 

[tay]

i only have 2 so far... One i cant wait to stop being kicked in the bloody cervix / bladder it flipping hurts! And 2 have sex with out telling the other half off... Oh, not so hard... Steady, not so deep.... Not like that Your squashing my bump! Sorry if tmi lol!

 

[rubycrumble]

Helps to vent doesn't it!! Plus good to know your not the only one having a bad day sometimes!

 

[Evansangel]

1. Throwing up when i eat something i used to love.
2. When throwing up the food clumping in my throat.
3. Feeling tired all day every day.
4. Not being able to wrap up warm in the rain as i will overheat in about 10 seconds.
5. Crying randomly over nothing.

Thats all i can think of right now

 

[herewego]

Loving this thread...my gripes are:

1. the constant nausea and vomiting... oh and I truely do mean constant..
2. waking up in the middle of the night with hip pain/needing to pee
3. going for said pee to find I actually didn't need to go half as badly and I thought
4. am with the others on having to discount half of the menu... grrrrrrrrrrrrrr
5. not being able to have a glass of wine (never ever thought I'd miss it as muc has I do.. and I hardly drink anyway!)
6. not being able to pick up my own bag if its fallen on the floor
7. not having to have that dam heparin every day
8. not worrying about every little ache/pain/hint of blood on loo paper

Oh and 9. if one more person tells me I'm huge and asks if I'm having twins I shall scream...

You know the worst of it all girls? We've done this to ourselves!!! And am I the only one who can't wait till they actually get to meet their little ones, meanign that pregnancy appears to be dragging?!

 

[MADLYSBOYS]

Hon am with you on meeting my LO like ASAP......this is my last pregnancy for 1. we have agreed on just two children and 2. now I am pregnant I seriously cant do this to myself again I want my baby so much it hurts but I just want D DAY to be here now.....I never thought I would feel like this when TTC I was so desparate to see that but now I hate to admit it....I feel crap and just want my LO in my arms already!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[donna-c-86]

i love being pregnant, i love my huge bump, the good outweighs the bad for me, i wanted this baby for so long that the niggles which come with being pregnant dont bother me

 

[Scarlett316]

I just want to be able to sneeze without pee coming out.

 

[mbara]

1. Feeling tired all the time.
2. Getting emotional so easily
3. Throwing up everything I eat
4. Feeling nauseous when I'm not throwing up
5. Not sleeping on my back
6. Gross hair and acne

 

[alparen]

i am happy to be pregnant but do get fed up a lot
1. feeling more and more exhausted and less motivated with each passing day
2. hardly being able to sleep at night despite being exhausted all damned day
3. waking up to pee at night
4. wondering if the dreaded rum bum monster is going to hit me that day when i leave the house or will I be ok that day
5. needing to pee every 5 minutes when we leave the house
6. feeling bloated at night
7. not having any clothing that fits me anymore
8. feeling like i am living in a sauna at night everynight.. i no longer sleep with blankets
9. feeling guilty over my non existent labido!!!

 

[BellaBlu]

My main one at the moment is..

"But you wanted to get pregnant so badly! You should be loving every minute" ..

CORRECTION, I said I wanted a child desperately.. not that I wanted to gain weight, get hairy.. give up eating and pooping and sleeping normally and then endure childbirth..

Coincidentally, in order to get my precious baby in my arms, I have to be pregnant. Thats just the way the cookie crumbles.


Worth it? Yes. Would I skip it all if humanly possible? Abso-freaking-lutely.

 

[alparen]

My main one at the moment is..

"But you wanted to get pregnant so badly! You should be loving every minute" ..

CORRECTION, I said I wanted a child desperately.. not that I wanted to gain weight, get hairy.. give up eating and pooping and sleeping normally and then endure childbirth..

Coincidentally, in order to get my precious baby in my arms, I have to be pregnant. Thats just the way the cookie crumbles.


Worth it? Yes. Would I skip it all if humanly possible? Abso-freaking-lutely.

good lord my husband says that to me to If i bring up something about hot i fee lthat day and i get so fed up with him when he says that. like am i supposed to feel like roses everyday NO! I'm growing a freaking human being inside me so sorry if I feel like an poop warmed over half the time!A lso if i am genuinely upset about something that i should be upset about he says i am one of those crazy pregnant ladies and that he can see i will be the lady after the baby is born that will be all depressed.. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

 

[BellaBlu]

My main one at the moment is..

"But you wanted to get pregnant so badly! You should be loving every minute" ..

CORRECTION, I said I wanted a child desperately.. not that I wanted to gain weight, get hairy.. give up eating and pooping and sleeping normally and then endure childbirth..

Coincidentally, in order to get my precious baby in my arms, I have to be pregnant. Thats just the way the cookie crumbles.


Worth it? Yes. Would I skip it all if humanly possible? Abso-freaking-lutely.

good lord my husband says that to me to If i bring up something about hot i fee lthat day and i get so fed up with him when he says that. like am i supposed to feel like roses everyday NO! I'm growing a freaking human being inside me so sorry if I feel like an poop warmed over half the time!A lso if i am genuinely upset about something that i should be upset about he says i am one of those crazy pregnant ladies and that he can see i will be the lady after the baby is born that will be all depressed.. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

Wow.. does your husband have life insurance?

Okay,totally joking. See what he thinks of crazy pregnant ladies now.. mwahaha.

 

[Mrs-C]

I really want this baby - but this isn't the glowing time I was led to believe. I think once the baby is here you forget about the fact that:

- I have some crappy flu type thing and can't take anything
- Out of the blue I will feel like I'm going to hurl right there and then
- Can't get comfy to sleep
- People looking straight at me and then talking to my belly (not sure why that bugs me)
- Feeling like dying when I wake up and then again before bed
- All the helpful 'advice' you get - even though no-one agrees with each other
- People feeling the need to tell me birth horror stories, things that have gone wrong, how I have no idea what having a baby means etc