amotherslove
MamaToLilyLucyAndLila<3
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so yesterday i was out at work dropping off papers to extend my time off work as i am not at all emotionally ready to back yet (who thought a month went so fast...) and when i leave i get a text from my roommate and bestfriend.. former best friend? i dunno.. anyway.. she msgs to tell me she "didnt want to do this via text but" (then why did you?) she's moving out. now! like.. she took all of her things out of the house last night while i cried and my mom packed for me.
her excuse? "i didnt think you could pay the bills" though she knew i could.. she then told m that i didn't have a job (which i do.. i am on bereavment leave) she said she was concerned i might not be able to pay in coming months.. even though i am still making money.. and that the jobwasnt "stable".. ??? this is the same "friend" who has done nothing but crack jokes about my daughters death.. (given, this is how we tend to deal with any and all pain.. but i just cant do that with lily..) we used to be best friends.. after living with each other, the relationship has degraded for various reasons.. but she was meant to be moving in may when school ended.. and I was courteous enough to not look for a place with my family (even though they have been itching to move and i REALLY didnt want to live with her anymore) i didn't look for a place because i did not want to screw hr over.. apparantly i am not going to be given the same courtesy..
i really can't believe this.. especially in a time of such pain.. and need.. how someone could do this to a "friend" .. or even another human being.. not to mention.. why now?? right now.. if the tables were turned.. and it were her going through this.. and her struggling with bills i would nevr mak it WORSE for her by bailing out..
i was able (just barely) to pay my half of the bills.. but now.. i cannot pay them because she has basically abandoned me..
anyway.. just needed to rant.. if you got this far... you get a medal ! (not really.. but you get my appreciation)
thanks girls.. and i hop you're all doing okay *hugs*
her excuse? "i didnt think you could pay the bills" though she knew i could.. she then told m that i didn't have a job (which i do.. i am on bereavment leave) she said she was concerned i might not be able to pay in coming months.. even though i am still making money.. and that the jobwasnt "stable".. ??? this is the same "friend" who has done nothing but crack jokes about my daughters death.. (given, this is how we tend to deal with any and all pain.. but i just cant do that with lily..) we used to be best friends.. after living with each other, the relationship has degraded for various reasons.. but she was meant to be moving in may when school ended.. and I was courteous enough to not look for a place with my family (even though they have been itching to move and i REALLY didnt want to live with her anymore) i didn't look for a place because i did not want to screw hr over.. apparantly i am not going to be given the same courtesy..
i really can't believe this.. especially in a time of such pain.. and need.. how someone could do this to a "friend" .. or even another human being.. not to mention.. why now?? right now.. if the tables were turned.. and it were her going through this.. and her struggling with bills i would nevr mak it WORSE for her by bailing out..
i was able (just barely) to pay my half of the bills.. but now.. i cannot pay them because she has basically abandoned me..
anyway.. just needed to rant.. if you got this far... you get a medal ! (not really.. but you get my appreciation)
thanks girls.. and i hop you're all doing okay *hugs*