Hi, i am new to this sort of thing, but my mum thought it might be a good idea to talk to people who have been through what i am at the moment?
It all started 2 years ago when my partner and i decided to TTC we always knew this would be hard as i have PCOS but 18 months down the line we were so pleased when we found out i was pregnant, we then had a happy and hassle free 5 months, until thursday 27th January 2011 when i woke in the morning with so much pain i could not walk, i went to my GP who was concerned and called the hospital who told him to send me home and not worry as i was a first time mum who is over reacting!!!
Later that afternoon my partner rushed me to the local hospital and we were seen by the maternity ward who again dismissed our concerns and sent us home, we continued to return to the hospital throughout the friday and saturday up to 4 times in one day, in total we went and was sent home 12 times from that thursday.
Then finally on the saturday night my partner refused to take me home and demanded they admit me and sort things out, so i was put on a ward and left all day sunday for a scan on the monday morning, but unfortunatley in the early hours of the monday morning i woke in so much blood and pain and crawled to the toilet on the ward and gave birth to my beautiful baby girl who was born asleep, i was totally alone, and the emergancy pull cord would not work, so i decided to scream the hospital down until someone came to help me!
I was discharged from hospital the same day, only to be rushed back again on the wednesday for an emergancy ERPC.
we named the baby Jasmine and we had the funeral last week, i have now returned to work, but as i work in a fast paced enviroment (construction) and am the only female at work i feel totally alone, i have only been back 3 days and people are demanding so much from me that i just dont seem to be able to do!
Also we opted for a PM to find out the cause of the prem labour, but we do not find out the results for another month yet, and i have all these questions in my head with no answers!!!
Sorry for the long rant but any help would be so great, i am struggling to get up in the mornings or even do the easiest daily things, i am also so scarred of it happening again, i had a scan the day before it all started and everything was fine!!!
Sara x
It all started 2 years ago when my partner and i decided to TTC we always knew this would be hard as i have PCOS but 18 months down the line we were so pleased when we found out i was pregnant, we then had a happy and hassle free 5 months, until thursday 27th January 2011 when i woke in the morning with so much pain i could not walk, i went to my GP who was concerned and called the hospital who told him to send me home and not worry as i was a first time mum who is over reacting!!!
Later that afternoon my partner rushed me to the local hospital and we were seen by the maternity ward who again dismissed our concerns and sent us home, we continued to return to the hospital throughout the friday and saturday up to 4 times in one day, in total we went and was sent home 12 times from that thursday.
Then finally on the saturday night my partner refused to take me home and demanded they admit me and sort things out, so i was put on a ward and left all day sunday for a scan on the monday morning, but unfortunatley in the early hours of the monday morning i woke in so much blood and pain and crawled to the toilet on the ward and gave birth to my beautiful baby girl who was born asleep, i was totally alone, and the emergancy pull cord would not work, so i decided to scream the hospital down until someone came to help me!
I was discharged from hospital the same day, only to be rushed back again on the wednesday for an emergancy ERPC.
we named the baby Jasmine and we had the funeral last week, i have now returned to work, but as i work in a fast paced enviroment (construction) and am the only female at work i feel totally alone, i have only been back 3 days and people are demanding so much from me that i just dont seem to be able to do!
Also we opted for a PM to find out the cause of the prem labour, but we do not find out the results for another month yet, and i have all these questions in my head with no answers!!!
Sorry for the long rant but any help would be so great, i am struggling to get up in the mornings or even do the easiest daily things, i am also so scarred of it happening again, i had a scan the day before it all started and everything was fine!!!
Sara x