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molly860
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Hey all,
So my husband and i have been married for about 3 years now. He used to hang out with his brother a lot when we first started dating, and his brother and i always got on well. About a year and a half into me and my husband dating, his brother got this gf. Her and i got on really well at first, she seemed very pleasant, fun, outgoing, and we would go out as a 4 a lot. Then, about a year or so in, things started to change. His gf's personality changed dramatically. I am not sure why, but we would be invited places by them, but when we got there she wouldn't say hi to me or aknowledge me, and sometimes not talk the whole night. I would make conversation sometimes, and she would respond, but she seemed pretty nonchalent when i spoke to her. I found this a bit strange, because she went from throwing my bachelorette party for me, to not talking to me at all, and i really don't know what her problem is. It has actually got to a point where my husband and i never see them anymore. My brother in law doesn't talk either. They invited us to a brunch one time around christmas, and when we got there i said hi to him and he never said hi back, so i figured oh he probably didn't hear seems we were in a restaurant with music, so i said heyyyy really loudly, and he blanked me. She never said hi either. So i started finding it really strange that they would invite us places but never really talk to me. She never spoke to me, and as the time went on talked less and less to my husband. My brother in law always talks to my husband when we are in their company, but never speaks to me. So, we stopped going to their functions, and only see them now if it is a family event. I am perfectly fine with this, but i am still friends with them both on fb, and she only ever comments on any of my stuff when she is giving her oppossing opinion to something i have said. I had no problem with this girl until she completely turned for no reason. What is her problem seriously! I find it so hard sometimes when she comments on my fb with a sarcastic comment, or being a know all. Sometimes it just seems like she purposely comments just to disagree with me. How would you all suggest dealing with this? I don't get why she has turned so strange.
So my husband and i have been married for about 3 years now. He used to hang out with his brother a lot when we first started dating, and his brother and i always got on well. About a year and a half into me and my husband dating, his brother got this gf. Her and i got on really well at first, she seemed very pleasant, fun, outgoing, and we would go out as a 4 a lot. Then, about a year or so in, things started to change. His gf's personality changed dramatically. I am not sure why, but we would be invited places by them, but when we got there she wouldn't say hi to me or aknowledge me, and sometimes not talk the whole night. I would make conversation sometimes, and she would respond, but she seemed pretty nonchalent when i spoke to her. I found this a bit strange, because she went from throwing my bachelorette party for me, to not talking to me at all, and i really don't know what her problem is. It has actually got to a point where my husband and i never see them anymore. My brother in law doesn't talk either. They invited us to a brunch one time around christmas, and when we got there i said hi to him and he never said hi back, so i figured oh he probably didn't hear seems we were in a restaurant with music, so i said heyyyy really loudly, and he blanked me. She never said hi either. So i started finding it really strange that they would invite us places but never really talk to me. She never spoke to me, and as the time went on talked less and less to my husband. My brother in law always talks to my husband when we are in their company, but never speaks to me. So, we stopped going to their functions, and only see them now if it is a family event. I am perfectly fine with this, but i am still friends with them both on fb, and she only ever comments on any of my stuff when she is giving her oppossing opinion to something i have said. I had no problem with this girl until she completely turned for no reason. What is her problem seriously! I find it so hard sometimes when she comments on my fb with a sarcastic comment, or being a know all. Sometimes it just seems like she purposely comments just to disagree with me. How would you all suggest dealing with this? I don't get why she has turned so strange.