emdeb
Mummy to Aiden
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I have always wanted a water birth at home and know that this can only be done if all is well with the little monster and me. Well at my booking in appointment the midwife rushed through everything and seemed to be more focused on breast feeding, when it came to the point to discuss birthing opens she just said to me "you are going to hospital, aren't you" well I was a bit shocked and just said yes so I could escape from her.
Last week I had my 16 week appointment and I made DH come with me so we could tell her that we wanted a home birth if possible. I had been having some bleeding as a result from a blood clot after the 12 week scan so I knew she would probably say it wasn't likely or some rubbish like that, but when we broached the subject she was really funny about it and her response was that she wouldn't even discuss it again until 37 weeks.
DH has said that we should wait until after teh 20 week scan and see if everything is OK and if it is then we try to discuss it again at my 24 week appointment and if she is funny again, request another midwife.
Has anyone else had any issues with their midwife and wanting a home birth?
Last week I had my 16 week appointment and I made DH come with me so we could tell her that we wanted a home birth if possible. I had been having some bleeding as a result from a blood clot after the 12 week scan so I knew she would probably say it wasn't likely or some rubbish like that, but when we broached the subject she was really funny about it and her response was that she wouldn't even discuss it again until 37 weeks.
DH has said that we should wait until after teh 20 week scan and see if everything is OK and if it is then we try to discuss it again at my 24 week appointment and if she is funny again, request another midwife.
Has anyone else had any issues with their midwife and wanting a home birth?