I need your support now more than ever girlies!

[Hotbump]

Things have gone downhill for me & OH. I think he found someone else he doesnt show any affection towards me because he is always too tired & he always says its because of lo. Hello? I take care of lo and im 34weeks pregnant! He doesnt talk much anymore. His paycheck always comes up short and he now makes plans without me! Like what he is going to do during the day. So today im going to be all alone with lo...its just not fair because he always wants me to tell him what im going to do but he gets mad when i ask him the same question. Im ALWAYS stuck @ home. Sometimes i wish i didnt love him sooo much because i always put up with his bs.

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

Huge sweetheart. You really need to sit down and have a good talk with him hun. As when baby gets here that will put even more strain on your realtionship due to tiredness etc
xx

 

[aob1013]

I'm going through the same kinda thing right now, it's sucking badly xxx

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

ally
xx

 

[Hotbump]

I already talked to him and do you know what happen? He fell asleep... I even wrote him a letter with all my feelings and i dont even know if he read it because i found him asleep again!

 

[aob1013]

I've tried everything:

- Talking civilly
- Shouting
- Crying
- Ignoring
- Reasoning & Compromising

..........

xxx

 

[jenniferannex]

Ahwww hugs for you Hun keep trying to talk to him hun it's the only way your going to get through to him, hope your ok it must be really hard xx

 

[Hotbump]

It does suck doesnt it? Aargh i just feel like punching him in the face. Aargh!

 

[aob1013]

I'm sure it will get better hun, pregnancy adds so much stress to stuff emotionally and physically. We'll be ok xxx

 

[jenniferannex]

I'm sure you both will OH did my head in when I was pregnant, he used to go out and leave me at home, saying he needs to make the most of it before baby comes, I was gutted he wouldn't spend the night in with me for 1 night as I couldn't make the most of if, I'd given up everything for him and lily ad he gave up nothing.
I used to think this is never going to last, but as soon as lily arrived everything just changed, we always spend time together as a family and it's lovely, we have our separate nights out aswell and everything back to normal but 100 times better, you 2 will be fine, like you said hormones are all over the place, hugs to you both xx

 

[Hotbump]

I hope so...our lo absolutely adores him bt oh gets mad at him for no reason. Like if he makes a mess with his toys and we nd up arguing i mean lo is 16months what else does he expect from him @ that age! Also @ first he thought that we were having a girl but it turned out boy and he didnt even bother to look at the pictures and just said oh really? It shouldnt matter what gender the baby is ! After the appointment he isnt showing much excitment with the baby.

 

[Jadelm]

to both your girly's. I don't really know what advice to give as I left FOB after all his crap, but I really really hope you guys get things back on track and it's just the scary pregnancy and the hormones throwing your men out of wack x

 

[newmommy23]

didn't want to read and run but

 

[mayb_baby]

 

[RachelRae]

I'm sure things will get better, xx

 

[AriannasMama]

 

[lushious09]

its easy to forget that pregnancy puts a strain on men aswell.. not in the same way as it does us but a huge one all the same! they have the worries and finnancial concerns and it can cause attitude to go downhill... the best thing to do is not keep at him ... sit down with him and ask him how hes feeling... i found out thats what was up with my now ex i always went on bout how the pregnancy made me feel and he felt i didnt give a damn bout his feelings! so maybe a little chat may do the job x