Mummy_to_be87
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I am sick and tired of my midwife community care team!! They are so ignorant and dont have the time of day for me!! I was late last week arriving to my appointment as I had another appointment and rung them to tell them I would be late and it was ok!! When I got there the clinic was over but the midwives were still in their little room!! One midwife said that there was no doctors available to see me and they had to get back to the hospital so she made me wait in the waiting room for half an hour then came out to get me and said I suppose a midwife can check you!! I went in and she done my BP, felt my tummy, measured it and that was it!! I mentioned my visual disturbances and headaches and she said I wasnt eating enough!! I was fuming!! I left and decided that it was because I was late and dropped it!! Over the past two months, I have been told by different midwives and doctors that my dates are all different!! One week I was 36 weeks then the next I was 33 weeks I mean seriously how on earth do they work that out!! I asked for a sweep and was told no because I was only 36 weeks even though the hospital done a thorough scan and told me I was 39 weeks!! My community care team really have no clue whatsoever!! I had to tell them how to work the electric blood pressure monitor!! Now because they have it in their head that I am 36 weeks even though the hospital told me my dates are spot on, the midwives wont give me a sweep or induce me and are expecting me to go until the end of June by which I will be way too overdue!! If something happens to me or my baby I will sue!! I am considering going to my GP and explaining everything and see what they suggest as I cant go on with this stress!! My notes show that one week I was 33 weeks the next I was 37 weeks, the following I was 35 weeks so surely the gp will see this and then see the hospital stated I am 39 weeks!! Just a rant but I am not going near my community midwife team again, they are hopeless!! Oh and one midwife who has been there for 30 years had to watch a student take blood from me as she needed tips because she had tried three times and couldnt get blood when the student tried once and succeeded!! I am so through with this care team!! I am considering just ringing the hospital if I need anything!! Im so mad today, must be hormones but I hate how I have been treated from day one!!