I still haven't calmed down!

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I'm sorry it's so long winded.

Yesterday me and my OH went to his mums. We spent the night there as we hadn't seen her in a while. Whilst she was out doing her business we headed off to see his dad. When we got back she'd gotten us a takeaway and we all sat up watching TV, eating and just having such a good laugh. (Normally, we go and she's busy so we hardly see her, or we go and she ends up p*ssing us off so bad we leave in a fowl mood the next day.)

But this morning her ex-boyfriend, who left her for another man turned up to help her take some of the music lesson. (She's a piano teacher.) Anyway, when me and my OH went downstairs, Andrew was sat in the living room with my mother-in-law. A few weeks ago he'd gotten an interview sorted out for my OH (he has a job he's just looking for a new one) and when he told the woman on the phone he had debt she said he'd not be hired but she'd ring him back at the end of September. So, as we'd gotten into the living room he turns to Geoff and asks him if he got back to that woman. Geoff told him no as she was suppose to be getting back to him, but that wasn't good enough. Andrew started shouting at him, "You f*ing waste my time, you were told to ring back, you made me look like an idiot, I'm never doing a f*ing thing for you again etc etc"

He just sat there shouting abuse at my OH, at the moment my hormones are raging so I was almost ready to punch him. My OH took the shouting he got out of respect for his mum. And did the manly thing and appologised. He went upstairs to get our bags so we could leave, and Andrew started on my Mother-in-law. Telling her how much of a waste of space my OH (her son) is. Whilst I was sat in the room!! Then as soon as Geoff gets back downstairs he starts on him again, as soon as he does though I turn to him, and tell him EXACTLY why she hasn't rang back, in which he started shouting at me, "Listen love...It doesn't matter about debt...Keep out of it it's got nothing to do with you...Maybe if you kept your legs shut..." All the typical things to offend me was said. So, deciding to take the high road, me and OH left not before Geoff turned to him and told him that if he ever spoke to his pregnant fiancee in that way he'd put him on his arse.

This all happened this morning at around 10am, it's now half 3pm. and I'm still not over it. My heart is raising and I'm getting all flustered. I know it isn't good for Adam in anyway! :cry: I just wish I could stop thinking about what a prat that man is.

Thank you for taking the time in reading!
 
How rude of him, your oh should of just lamped him one, Have a nice bath and relax for a bit then tonight nice dinner,trashy tv & a foot rub! x
 
We were both shaking with anger!! But I definitely think a good foot rub is in order :D x
 
Oh gosh Helen, what a prick. People like that deserve a good boot up their arse. Not sure with my hormones I could've taken the high road, but you've got to be so proud of Geoff and yourself for remaining calm. This guy sounds like a waste of everyone's time and energy and for him to take a stab at you when you were calmly defending the person you love is absolutely asinine and childish. Just shrug it off (as hard as it is) and take time to pamper yourself and Geoff. ANDDD remain calm for Adam, he needs his mommy to stay strong. :hugs::flower:
 
It took all my energy not to jump on him and pound his face in! I think tonight is going to be a bath, chocolate, bed and snuggles night! I'm very proud of Geoff for standing up for himself though, he's a very reserved person and will take what people have to say and appologise.
 
You should be having those nights every night (I know I do), just because :laugh2:

Definitely proud of Geoff, we all know who came out smelling like roses in that argument.
 
I'm actually jealous of your nights!

His mum rang us after to say that she's super proud of me for standing up for Geoff and that she got rid of Andrew after he had the gall to say that I had no right to talk to him like that! Pah!
 
It's a good thing that's her ex boyfriend too. He sounds like he has anger issues and sounds mentally abusive. Asshat. :growlmad:
 
He is! He doesn't even live there, I found that so disrespectful, that he'd shout at her son in HER house! Also, he's always talking to Geoff like that, always tries to put him down. I think it's because he's a got a 'thing' for him ;), ya know?
 
Ugh!!! That is awful! And you did way better than I would have in that situation, I would have raised hell! But at least your MIL isn't with him anymore and realizes that he is ridiculous. I would still be worked up over it too... hormones, lol.
 
Lol, tell me about it. My hormones are going so daft. I think I'll still be smarting about it tomorrow.
 
aww hun :hugs: what an absolute idiot!
not surprised that you're still worked up about it x
 

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