I still want him back

[Cazamatazaaa]

Me and my ex split 3 weeks ago, i still want him back, its so hard, as when I told him to go, the week before we was so close and loving, im finding it hard to understand it all!

i told him to go because he just annoyed me so much that particular weekend he was just a complete arse!

we have hardly spoke, not had chance to get on, hes just completely cut me out, which is his way of dealing with things i think.

what can i do?

 

[janinio87uk]

be strong and hold ur head up high, what will be will be.
I hope things work out for u, u never know what the future will bring xx

 

[dustbunny]

After every break up there is always the initial reaction to want them back. This doesn't always mean it is them you want but what they represented, someone else being with you, the comfort they offered etc. You have to try and remember the reasons why you pushed him away because they were strong enough for you to break up with him over. I know it is easier said than done and when I broke up with a previous ex [one before FOB] I would have given the world to change time back, fell into major depression and felt rubbish for months... I did dwell a lot, I am a dweller of things... but now when I look back I can see what a massive cock he was.
What I am trying to say is stay strong, these first few weeks are never fun but think of the long term. This time next month you will be feeling so much better, this time in 6 months it will be a completely different story. As a PP said, keep your head held high. Stay strong

 

[Cazamatazaaa]

Thank you, it means alot, because i know your right. i keep thinking of the start, the love i felt then, the good times, not the bad, i know your right, its the hardest thing getting over someone that was such a huge part of your life, and still has to be! arghhhh

thank you xxxx

 

[dustbunny]

Thank you, it means alot, because i know your right. i keep thinking of the start, the love i felt then, the good times, not the bad, i know your right, its the hardest thing getting over someone that was such a huge part of your life, and still has to be! arghhhh

thank you xxxx

We have all been there at some point in our lives and we have all looked back with majorly huge novelty rose tinted glasses. It is so much easier to look back at anything in life and see the positive, I still do with FOB from time to time and expect things to change and they just don't and then I end up upsetting myself. Relax for the rest of the day and see tomorrow as the start of a new chapter.