I think it has happened again!!!

[Hannah11]

I suffered a mmc back in June 12 where my symptoms started to fade at about 7 weeks not that i had many to start with!! Just a bit of nauseor, tiredness and sore boobs. Anyways I visited the doctors and spoke to my midwife telling them something did not feel right but everyone said I was being silly and it was nothing to worry about. Two days before I was due to have my 12 week scan I had a very small amount of spotting which was finally enough for them to send me for a scan all be it 2 days before my proper one was due. We sure enough my baby had not grown passed 6 weeks and because I had not passed it naturally I had to have a erpc to remove it. As any of u can imagen this was a horrible time for me and my family and took a it of getting over. Thankfully I found out in the middle of November that I had managed to conceive again and am now around 6+5. Everything had been going along swimmingly, I had been feeling really positive, very tired and a little bit sick so felt all was going in the right direction. My very light cramping was reassuring me that the baby was growing and settling in and everything was going to be fine this time round.

This morning I wake up a d suddenly like last time I don't feel pregnant anymore !!!! No icky feeling no tiredness and just feel empty!! I know it is normal for symptoms to come and go but really feel this is just the same as last time. I have not felt really icky since Saturday now and although there has been no spotting or pain there was not last time. I know the answer is to maybe go and get checked out but I'm not sure I can cope with the out come. What should I do? My oh thinks I should sit tight for a week and see if symptoms return but I don't know if that will drive me crazy or if I am better to stay in ignorant bliss for a while longer. Surly mmc's are not that common that it would happen exactly the same way at the same time to me twice?

 

[nicksi27]

So sorry you are going through this. Theres a massive chance you are just panicking because of what happened last time and baby is just fine. My symptoms have been differnet this time round and some days in early pregnancy i woke up feeling sickly and actually feeling pregnant but other days i was completely fine and thought is baby ok? thats why i bought a doppler so i could hear the heartbeat when i got a panic on. Im sure this is what you are going through but in view of your history, i would get checked out simply to reassure yourself. good luck x

 

[Hannah11]

Thank u for your kind words - I called my gp who is amazing and booked me a scan straightaway. I have just left and am happy to say I saw a little blob with what the nurse said was a healthy hb. My fiend has a doppler which i will borrow when i get past 12 weeks. So glad I went and put my mind at rest!!! X

 

[nicksi27]

Yeyyy so glad to hear everything's ok Yep the doppler is great when you get a bad feeling and need some instant reassurance. x

 

[susan_1981]

I know easier said than done but try not to worry. I didn't really have any symptoms until I was about 7-8 weeks along and even then, it was very minimal and on and off. Really hope it works out for you this time. I too had a MMC back in 2008 and it's awful x

 

[MamaTex]

Thank u for your kind words - I called my gp who is amazing and booked me a scan straightaway. I have just left and am happy to say I saw a little blob with what the nurse said was a healthy hb. My fiend has a doppler which i will borrow when i get past 12 weeks. So glad I went and put my mind at rest!!! X