I told my mum

[Vickie]

Glad to hear she is coming around

 

[Becki77]

Hey, Pleased to hear your mum is now being supportive. Im sure she was just very shocked!
Congrats,xx

 

[Serene123]

All mums come around eventually!

 

[Laura--x]

Really glad to hear that shes come round and being supportive now hun

I think all mums initial reaction is that, afterall, her 'baby' is having a baby of their own so its hard for them to come around. But the most important thing is that she has realised you need her comfort and support and has come around .

 

[Emmea12uk]

Oh wow! i am so pleased she came round! Good luck to you!

 

[7WZ]

Do what you want. You will get help from other people even if your mum won't help but when she starts seeing you grow she might realise how silly she has been. You will get help so your life isn't you're just going to be raising another one with you!

 

[Mumzrok]

Blah11 thats unfortunately the way the cookie crumbles.
I fell pregnant at 16 - my father is a POLICEMAN & my mother is very protective so it was a huge thing for my family but they get over it. everything changes when they see you glowing, see your belly & NOTHING is better than when they see your child. That changes everything!

Trust me it will be ok! Stay positive for your baby!

 

[Emsi76]

I think she will come round....the initial shock will make her mad and disappointed, but she will come round. She is a mother herself and she will be the support network you need.
I think at 20, although very young, you are old enough to make your own decisions.

Talk to her again, explain you didn't plan it but are excited etc etc and i am positive she will be on your side before you know it!!!

Good Luck

 

[Blah11]

I still thinks she thinks pregnancy was planned but it realllly wasn't! Oh well. We had quite a long chat yesterday and she was being so awesome about it. She said we can live in her house as long as we want b/c she'd rather I stayed there and was safe than being put into a rough area in a council bedsit! Now I can see she just wanted whats best for me.. now she knows I'm 100% in my decision she's fine with it.

 

[foxyroxie]

glad shes coming round hun! when i was pregnant me and my mum wasnt onm talking terms so she didnt no till the last minute so she was fine but we were never close but my dad he was so shocked and dissapointed in me cause he wants me to see the world first but the other week when he left from his regular visits he text me to say how proud of me he was of me think it just takes time

 

[pregnant_13yr]

No one can force you to get an abortion. It's YOUR child and YOUR decision. If you stand firm your mom will eventually accept it. I wish you luck and I hope it all works out.

 

[ashy-louise]

My mum went mental at first and told me to seriously consider abortion but i didnt want to and shes come round now. shes actually excited!

 

[dizzy65]

aww that sucks, if i was you i wouldn't abort, but it is your choice, but every baby is a blessing in life... Alot of parents of teenage mothers and never very supportave, at first anyways, maybe she will come around, and decide it isnt all so bad.. I wish u the best of luck

 

[leeanne]

I still thinks she thinks pregnancy was planned but it realllly wasn't! Oh well. We had quite a long chat yesterday and she was being so awesome about it. She said we can live in her house as long as we want b/c she'd rather I stayed there and was safe than being put into a rough area in a council bedsit! Now I can see she just wanted whats best for me.. now she knows I'm 100% in my decision she's fine with it.

So happy that she is coming around and being supportive. It truly is a shock to a parent when their own baby is having a baby. Their reaction may not be nice at first but most do come around to accept this new life.