I want to keep my child... respect that...

[Yazz_n_bump]

Basically last time I was pregerant my parents found out and wanted me to get a 'A' but of course me and OH didn't. They forced me into it and I was due to go the next day but I found out I had had a missed miscarriage...
Now it's only 5 months on and I pregerant AGAIN (pills didn't work) and me and OH are set on keeping it, I will fight my dying last breath to protect our child. But my mum is slowly figuering out that I am once again pregerant... and shes mentioned about 'A's but not directly said i know your pregerant etc...
I don't know what to do...
I'm nineteen as well so it's not like I'm young and silly (no offivese i just mean in their eyes) so I don't know why they won't be supportive and I know for a fact they'll never come round to it.

 

[stephx]

Dont let them force you into anything Just tell them its your decision and you are keeping your baby, im sure they will come around

xx

 

[Dragonfly]

from the sound of you you dont sound like someone who couldnt take care of a baby and your near 20 not under 16 . Its your body and they cant make you do it although the pressure isnt nice at all. Do you still live at home?

 

[Miss_d]

do what you want, its your body! they will come round eventually, but in worse case scenario if they dont then its their loss! oh and congratulations x

 

[Yazz_n_bump]

from the sound of you you dont sound like someone who couldnt take care of a baby and your near 20 not under 16 . Its your body and they cant make you do it although the pressure isnt nice at all. Do you still live at home?

Yes I do but me and OH plan to move in together by the end of this year.

 

[LoisP]

You need more respect, your 19, it's your decision, not theirs! It is your baby! Hope it all works out for you.

 

[aob1013]

Your body, your decision.

 

[pinkribbon]

Go with what your heart tells you. It'll be you who'll have to live with regret if you're pushed into the wrong choice, not them. You sound like you've made your mind up so don't let them mess you around.

 

[jenny_wren]

you're an adult
dont let your folks bully you into anything

your baby your choice

they'll come around im sure if they dont
then it's their loss

congratulations

xxx​

 

[Dragonfly]

from the sound of you you dont sound like someone who couldnt take care of a baby and your near 20 not under 16 . Its your body and they cant make you do it although the pressure isnt nice at all. Do you still live at home?

Yes I do but me and OH plan to move in together by the end of this year.

I think the sooner you move in with him the better before baby is born. You dont need all that around you. You both want a baby its not their choice your over 18 your hardly a child. I hope when you do have baby they wont be like that its their loss and grand child!

 

[rainbows_x]

Don't let the bully you into it hun

I'm also 19 & was petrified of telling my parents, luckily they took it well, but you are over 18, you can make your own decisions legally.

You need to tell your mum at some point, and tell her out straight that you WIL be keeping this baby, and that nothing she say's will change that.

I know it's a hard thing to do & really scary, but you need to put your foot down, you will always have your OH and us for support
x

 

[Karaax]

i have the exact same problem, me and my boyfriend are dead-set on keeping are little one, after i got pushed into an 'A' in december time, we just cant go through the pain again, i have got to the stage now where i couldnt really care if they like it or not!
i am going to make sure i prove all of them wrong!
do what makes you happy, its your choice and your baby at the end of the day hun. x

 

[youngmum2b]

1st off congrats on your pregnancy.
Don't let them push you around hun your hardly a kid at the end of the day, n the fact that your mum still wants to treat you like a kid just screams at me that shes immature (no offence) thats just how i see it. I agree with pp the sooner u n oh move in together the better.

We're all here (day n night most of the time hehe) if you every need to talk, rant, ask questions.

I wish you all the best n hope you do whats right for you not your mum.
xxxxx

 

[Nov2010Momma]

It is completely your decision not theirs! You are an adult and can make your own choices. And i'm sure they will come around. It might just take a while to sink in, i don't see how they can still not want you to have the baby by the time it gets here. Everyone loves little bundles of joy don't let anyone force you into doing something you don't want to do. Good luck!

 

[RachelRae]

It's all up to you! Your body, your baby, your decision. You're over 18 so they have no right to make you do anything. Just stand next to your decision, they might not be happy at first, but I'm sure the closer it comes to your due date they'll start coming around a bit.
xx

 

[dizzy65]

 

[Adrienne]

You're an adult. It's your decision. Don't let them force you into anything you don't want to do.

 

[hopeandpray]

and because your family aren't saying it CONGRATULATIONS! i hope that you have a very healthy and happy pregnancy