I wonder if my FOB will ever regret his decision

[Blue_star]

My ex FOB left earlier this month decided he didn't want to be a dad even tho at first he wanted too alot.

I wonder if he will ever regret it? he seems to change his mind alot tho..

The only way I find to cope is by being active and doing things I have a very supportive family and the support of some of my lifelong friends so i'v been spending alot of time with them going to bbq's trips to the beach. I find it gets my mind off FOB and helps me relax. I'm due in September so i'm giving until then to hear from him. If not I do not plan on giving him an further chances after that to be in mine or LO's life.

 

[Dezireey]

Just gotta get on with things hun, thats all you can do. Try really hard not to expect him to come around when baby is born, that way you won't be disappointed and heartbroken when he doesn't. My FOB is in touch with me ( talking about birth cert etc) but I just cant imagine ever being happy with him ever again after he abandoned me. Its just one of those things I dont think many women can ever forgive her partner for doing. No woman deserves to be in a proper relationship and then have her partner leave her just because she is pregnant and keeping the baby. Be strong and concentrate on your lovely baby. When they eventually arrive, it makes up for all the sorrow and sadness you have gone through as it will make you happy. Hard work but very very happy

 

[jemmie1994]

^ Beautifully put Dezireey
expect nothing then if anything ever does change its a bonus!
is hard once the trust is broken but you find ways of managing just take it one day at a time you'll get to a point where you won't need distracting from it

 

[lindad2604]

Men only regret it when they see you coping well and are happy!! Get on with your life and you will meet someone that will never walk out on you!