I would sooooooo love to tell him to F OFF!

[suzanne108]

FOB text me yesterday....asking if I needed anything for the baby....erm NO! Maybe you should have asked when I was like 20 weeks...but anyway this isn't the point hehe.

I told him I'd be signed off work with high blood pressure etc...didn't give him the exact reason. And he replied saying "I'm sooooo proud of you that you've managed to do this and been so strong"....not those exact words as I can't look at the text without vomiting but something along those lines. I think he's referring to me suffering with anxiety/depression but I mean....is he for real????? The hardest thing I've had to put up with through my pregnancy is the bullying from him and his precious mummy!!!!!!

argh it made me mad.....I just wanted to reply with abuse and all sorts but I was a good girl and ignored it!

I hate him, hate him, hate him.

Really not good for my high blood pressure.........

 

[KaeRit21]

your not alone hun, must be something in the water my FOB has taken it apon himself to be a twit all over again.

hes even told people that him not getting to see bubs is "the worst thing to ever happen to him"
and made it out that im just basically being a bad witch for not allowing him the surname, being at birth etc.

it, apparantly, has NOTHING to do with the fact he hasnt made any effort to provide anything for baby, has made excuses as to why he still "cant" (AHEM. wont), or the fact that hes more interested in gettin pished at the weekends.

but no. im just being bad, nasty and horrible.

ive since ignored ALL texts from him and i wont be two minutes in explaining why when i get my hands on him.
texting when he feels like it is one thing, spreading crap about me is another.

asshole.

xxx

 

[suzanne108]

They are idiots aren't they.

I hate the way FOB has just all of a sudden turned nicey nicey and expects me to go along with it.

Saying he's proud of me....what exactly is he proud of? The fact that I managed to be strong whilst he was being an absolute knob??? Or sticking up for myself when his mum was sending me nasty letters???

I knew he'd pop back up just before the baby arrived and expect me to just let him in....but what else can I do other than let him? If he suddenly decides to be part of babies life I can't stop him, but how do I forgive and forget everything thats happened in the past?!!

ARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!

 

[babyndme]

Mine was exactly like this, LO is now nrly 7weeks old. and i Have stopped FOB to come anywhere near us because of the bulling he has done over the past months. He only came to see him 4 times in 4 weeks =O! i wish i could seriously hurt him in some way, but im better than him!! So we have to hold our heads up high! Good luck girlies xxx