i'm finding...

[dizzy65]

okay well ive had 4 previous m/c so this time im finding it hard to be excited about bean but truthfully nothing has gone wrong. I havent felt i was going to loose it, i havent been overly crampy or anything and everything seems to be going great it feels like theres sumething in there, but i am still finding it hard to let my self feel attached in any way, like everyone is so excited for me but im nervous, i just want these 9 months to go by fast so i can hold it in my arms, and i dont want any thing to go wrong with it, i think im just crazy

 

[Tasha]

Not crazy at all sweetie, it is 'normal' in pregnancy after loss. I hope time goes quickly for you

 

[dizzy65]

thanks me too

 

[lauraperrysan]

i have had 5 m/c's in the last 2yrs.....me and oh have not really mentioned this bean, has bad gas pain last night but thought it was going to be a m/c and i didn't even feel upset. that sounds really odd to most but because i have had so many losses u prepare urself for loosing another to hide from the pain of getting too attached.
i dont think i will ever truely believe it.....not until my baby is in my arms
xxxx

 

[littleblonde]

I have had 1 loss. But in this pregnancy i spotted red from weeks 5-7 and then lost a period amount of blood at 7 weeks. I had 3 scans through it all and the 1st 2 times i set myself upto miscarry and cryed when they said i didnt. But by the 8 week scan i was so detached that i barely even noticed my little bean wiggling. It has taken me long time for me to be even a little excited. Even now im so excited but there is something inside me that stops me from thinking in 6 weeks im gonna have a baby. I couldnt biuy anything till after 32 weeks. So i hope that you relax more than i did, as i ahve wasted this pregnancy.

 

[millwallrose4]

I don't think it's crazy at all. I have had miscarriages, the latest at 9 weeks, and for every pregnancy since my first miscarriage I have been unable to truly enjoy it or to feel really excited until about 30 weeks because I know how easily things can change. I hope that as your pregnancy progresses you will find it easier to enjoy. I hope it goes well for you.