I'm losing my Zen.

[SaraVO]

I have been very chill, it's okay little man doesn't have a name. I have accepted that my husband wants to meet him before giving him one but I am now thirty weeks he is going to be here so fast and he is growing and getting so big and I am so attached, smitten and I feel like I know him. I have dreams of his little face and how he is going to feel when I hold him. I know he's a stranger to my husband but to me he is so real and tangible I feel him all day, he kicks me constantly I talk to him. I know my son and it is starting to make me crazy again the not having a name thing at this point I would be fine with just about anything which is crazy but I just want him to have a name. I keep saying little man and buddy and a couple of other things but it's not the same. I keep calling him names off of the very short list but they all sound fake because I don't know if it will actually be his name. I know tradition and our culture says that father's name sons but these days I'm really wishing I was a more modern do what I want kinda woman...

 

[IsaacRalph]

Aww I know exactly how you feel hun apart from my husband wanted to call our baby boy which I'm almost sure we are having Tobias. Even though I love it, it just doesn't feel right to me and as you say we have these little people in our bodies and are more attached to them. Maybe if you choose a few names which you can discuss with the hubby which are defos and then when he comes just insist on the one that feels right for you?? I'm sure he will be so overwhelmed amd proud of you he will go with what you love anyway xx

 

[SaraVO]

Aww I know exactly how you feel hun apart from my husband wanted to call our baby boy which I'm almost sure we are having Tobias. Even though I love it, it just doesn't feel right to me and as you say we have these little people in our bodies and are more attached to them. Maybe if you choose a few names which you can discuss with the hubby which are defos and then when he comes just insist on the one that feels right for you?? I'm sure he will be so overwhelmed amd proud of you he will go with what you love anyway xx

We have a list sort of.

Sebastian is the top contender and my favorite.

Alexander all though aside from adding it we haven't talked about it.

Matthew my husband's best friend and not my favorite. He is a good guy but I've only interacted with him drunk.

And James husband's uncle and the one I really don't like plus his sister is Jamie which is the only nickname I like and is very feminine to me.