ashleyw563
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Hello All,
My name is Ashley and I just want to tell a little about myself.
So for starters I will start with the #1 blessing of my life, my 4 year old son(from previous relationship). I was with his dad for about 5 years and was in pure misery, i felt as though i was trapped with no way out. I was physically and mentally abused. So a year and a half ago I got smart and packed up mine & my son's things and left to stay with my dad. Not long after that I met my one true love whom I married this past June. He not only treats me wonderful but has also accepted my son into his life as his own. I could not be anymore thankful for that. So anyway, I'll get to the point. My now DH was previously married for 8 years and no child. So after we had been together long enough to talk about marriage, children,etc. he mentioned that he didnt think that he was able to have children due to the fact that he never did in his marriage before. So after we decided to start having a child of our own (1 year and so many months ago) with no luck whatsoever, only a few false hopes and BFN's we decided to go to the dr for him to have a SA. What a let down! We of course didn't get the results we hoped for, he had low sperm count, low motility & morphology. So now, months later we have made an appointment for him to see an Urologist (2weeks from now) to try to figure out or options. So, recently after searching and searching about of problems i found several forums on the topic of IUI's so depending on what we find out at the urology appointment, I was kinda thinking we would give this a try. So, that's my situation and a little insight to my life, now i hope to find others that are in my situation that can provide some encouraging words and support.
My name is Ashley and I just want to tell a little about myself.
So for starters I will start with the #1 blessing of my life, my 4 year old son(from previous relationship). I was with his dad for about 5 years and was in pure misery, i felt as though i was trapped with no way out. I was physically and mentally abused. So a year and a half ago I got smart and packed up mine & my son's things and left to stay with my dad. Not long after that I met my one true love whom I married this past June. He not only treats me wonderful but has also accepted my son into his life as his own. I could not be anymore thankful for that. So anyway, I'll get to the point. My now DH was previously married for 8 years and no child. So after we had been together long enough to talk about marriage, children,etc. he mentioned that he didnt think that he was able to have children due to the fact that he never did in his marriage before. So after we decided to start having a child of our own (1 year and so many months ago) with no luck whatsoever, only a few false hopes and BFN's we decided to go to the dr for him to have a SA. What a let down! We of course didn't get the results we hoped for, he had low sperm count, low motility & morphology. So now, months later we have made an appointment for him to see an Urologist (2weeks from now) to try to figure out or options. So, recently after searching and searching about of problems i found several forums on the topic of IUI's so depending on what we find out at the urology appointment, I was kinda thinking we would give this a try. So, that's my situation and a little insight to my life, now i hope to find others that are in my situation that can provide some encouraging words and support.
