Im scared..Update!

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[Wishfull]

First off i would like to say that your not alone and everyone on here will help you if we can.
You must have alot of things going through your head at the moment. An so that will not be helping ease your body either with you feeling stressed. Im am so sorry that you cant talk to your other half about what your going through. Men can be so cruel when it comes to pregnancy and miscarriage. As i only know to well.
I would advice that since you feel sick do you feel faint aswel?
If so sweetie i would go to your doctor. Maybe even go in the morning. They would in no way tell you that you have waisted there time. They are there to help you.
And for getting a possitive test iv never heard of one being wrong.
But sweetie to ease your mind i would say go to your doc. They would be able to make you feel better even if it was nothing. BUT please dont feel bad about going to the docs.

Take care darling.

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[cheryl]

I agree with wishfull. Go see your doc hun, they are there to help and if its nothing then it doesn't matter at least it will put your mind at rest.
I can understand with your Oh too, mine was the same, I didn't feel I could talk to him about much either they don't seem to understand.
Luv Cheryl xxx

 

[star-dust]

thanks for the replys, I thnk I defo will see a doc in morn, when hubbys back at work, My sister said to call today but hes on his day off and I would find it difficult to expalin, would it be wrong to go see doc find out exactly whats wrong, then tell hubby afterwards, or would it be better to try and explain before?
As for feeling sick, faint? not really occasionaly light headed and dizzy but other then that not faint

thanks again for the advice

xxx

 

[beetlebailey]

this is exactly how i am feeling now and i dont knwo if i am having/had an early miscarriage. I have an appointment with my doc in 10mins. I didnt have a positive pregnancy test though so i dont know whats going on. Hope your ok XXX

 

[Drazic<3]

I would so agree, you need to get to the doctors even if its just for your own piece of mind.
Thinking of you

 

[star-dust]

Well I have spoken to the doc this am, he asked if I wanted to go see him, but I said just reassurance on the phone is ok
(they have a weird thing here were you call the docs to make an appointment for them to call you, they then speak to you over the phone, then they decide whether its worth you going in to see them!!)
He asked whats been happening, so I explained everything as best as I could, and then said about my op the previous week, but the fact I had had a neg a week or so before, he asked loads details, and said it does sound like a miscarriage, he said he could do blood tests to confirm or if Im happy to just leave it then that would be fine, but now he knows that hubby and I are ttc he wants me to go see him in next couple weeks,
I asked if it was the g,a that could have caused this, he said he couldnt say for certain, but its most likly it was, because of the timing and the faint + on saturday, going by my dates he said I would have been around 4/5 weeks
I feel like sh*t now, as when I had op, the nurse said it could cause a m/c but I was adament that I wasnt, but in my heart I wasnt 100% sure, I had a feeling the neg was wrong, but no me being me ignored it and as a result I know have lost it

hubbys still being no help, says it doesnt matter and we can just try again, whats annoying me with him, is he just sees it as a something that wasnt life, so is throwawayable hence the toenail comparrison, this is what he said....

Hun, dont be upset about it, its not like it was anything there anyway, I mean its a bit like me cutting my toenail, its just a part of me that I cut my toenails then I throw them in the bin, its part of me and its grown on me, but it doesnt mean it feels anything orI feel anything

Im still tryin to work that one out but anyhoos!

On a good note, I brough my self a present to cheer myself up this am, which I am absoloty bouncing about (talk about mixed emotions) and I used hubbys credit card to pay for it oopsie sorry hun dont quite know how it jumped from the drawer to my hand oh and the £80 spent, nah wasnt me!!!!

 

[beetlebailey]

aww babe, it is hard and this is exactly what has happened to me. sending you huge xxx

 

[becky77]

aw glad you went to the dr if only to put your mind at rest, dont blame yourself this was not your fault you can only do so much and at the time of your op the test was negative you can not second guess these things . men can be very insensitive but i think its cos they dont know how to deal with it and as its not there bodies they dont understand.
we however do know what you are going through , this site is brilliant for giving loads of support and help.

take care

enjoy your present to yourself