I'm sick of sharing my child rant

[Dream.dream]

My sons sperm donor actually showed up yesterday so I had to let him come trick or treating with him. ( Wednesdays he has court ordered visitation)

We'll he basically ruined it for us . He barly paid attention to my son and ignored him , was to busy talking to my boyfriend my brother and sister who came. This upset my son and made me and my boyfriend mad.

Then when we got home had to go through my sons candy because he has allergy to dyes . He insisted on helping, then asked what he's looking for, the ignored me when I tried to explain what to look for

It bugs me that I try and be civil with him and he has zero respect for me


I take care if my son read him stories , cook for him , teach him everything , pay for everything for him and only get child support when the govt forces him to. I do all the work and I'm sick of sharing the fun stuff with him too. He doesn't deserve him at all and I'm so sick of him taking credit for my hard work to his family and everyone else. Ugggggh

 

[Dezireey]

I know it doesn't help now but with a lot of these types of FOB's, it's usually the child in the end who turns around one day and says 'mum I don't want to see my Dad anymore, I don't like him/ get on with him etc' and by the sounds of it, that day will come and he will be out of your lives then. If his son makes the choice and realises what a tool his Dad is, better all round for all. The annoying thing is now, when they are little. If the father wants to know their kid, you have to comply or go to court. So grit your teeth Hun and one day it sounds very likely your son will tell his Dad where to go.

 

[jaytee146]

You're singing to the Freaking choir! lo's dad showed up as well after two weeks of not even asking to see her. and the jerk was in every Ipicture i tried to take of lo's first time trick or treating! jack@@@

 

[JennyBLove]

Ugh makes me sick to here the way these men drive you guys insane, im still preg but makes me think ill be the same way after baby born......ugh its like a annoying tagalong u just want to push out the way but cant cuz their the father. that sucks I feel for you all!! as for the pics id be like uhhh one of him alone please, dont wanna see ur face in them all lol. and for the one trick or treating and the candy thing he should already know what to look for ugh i feel ur pain too trying to get through to his brain but nothing works, ugh its like their an extra child u have to take care of once a while when they feel like coming around. I will htae the day mine trys to bring a woman along too. out the question.