im so mad

[mjbazz]

hi all im so mad hee is the story

the day i m/c my so called best mate phoned me so i told her my news and she turned round and told me that she was pregnant, how unfair and selfish anyway she told me that she was geting rid of it because she dosnt no who the dad is, it could be out of 7 people, worse thing is that she has already had 1 abortion, and she did get rid of the little one yesterday so thats 2 abortions she is selfish arrogent and i hate her how could she do that to an unvorn child? when there is people out there like you and me who try for children???? and esp when i told her i m/c and shelaughed and said she was pregnant and getting rid of it, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, worse thing is she is acting like nothing is wrong no remorse in her what so ever, im glad i moved away to liverpool with my bf otherwise i would of killed her,
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[Wishfull]

My friend just done the same. I found out i was pregnant and she was so happy for me then a month later my friend told me she was also pregnant. But then the day i found out i lost the baby she never really spoke to me. The next day she said she was having an abortion for the 3rd time. This would have been 3 abortions to 3 drifferent men. She has 1 kid already.
I felt she was completly wrong in her actions but as she told me it was her body but as a friend i was also worried for her as in the future if anything went wrong she might never get the chance again.
But still it is heart breaking when your hear that knowing that inside your screaming that how unfair it is that she at least had the choice an we never cause out poor little angels went up to heaven. I still find it hard to think about what shes just done.
We wanted out little babies so so so much we in times like this we have to be a little selfish an think of ourselfs an consentrate on getting ourselfs better physically an mentally.
Sorry for going on so much just wanted you to know i sort of know where your coming from.
Take care
xxxxxx

 

[moomoo]

I wish miscarraiges happened to people that have abortions..not people that just want their own little baby. Believe it or not i posted a very similar thread in the TTC forums a few days back..have a look if you want Hope your okay hun, we are here for you Xx

https://www.babyandbump.com/trying-to-conceive/69929-sooo-angry-warning-rant.html

 

[ClaireyF]

i understand your anger! I told my friends when i had a mc back in July and then a couple of weeks later she told me she was pg. Her and her bf had split up at the time (but obv slept together during that time). She's slightly older than me but now her and her bf are going to go live with her mother and all their family is buying all the baby things coz they can't afford it!! I realise its not as bad as your situations but its so hurtful the way she told me. I cried for ages! They are not in a stable relationship and me and my DH would have loved our little baby so much!

Before i mc i didnt really have an opinion about abortions but now it really p****s me off how they believe they can just get rid of a baby coz they no longer feel like they want it! Sorry to rant! I agree with Moomoo that mc should happen to people who want to have abortions!

Mjbazz - i really hope that when you are ready to TTC again that you have a happy and healthy 9 months!!

 

[JASMAK]

I know this sounds really horrible of me, but there is a woman at work who has had three abortions. She is not young, she has a well-paying, permanent position...she chose to "get rid of it" because she says the world is "overpopulated". Well, now she is in her 40's, and she just got married, and she got pregnant and wanted the baby this time. Well, shortly into the pregnancy, she had a m/c. I felt bad for the baby...but, not for her. I was secretly hoping she would m/c when she told everyone she was PG. She even said to me that if I treated my body better I would become PG easy just like her! Who's crying now bitch!

 

[honeybunch2k7]

Mjbazz, it's not even like she did it once and said O that was bad I need to be careful and not do it again, she did it 2x! I would love to be pregnant again!!!!

I wish miscarraiges happened to people that have abortions..not people that just want their own little baby. Believe it or not i posted a very similar thread in the TTC forums a few days back..have a look if you want Hope your okay hun, we are here for you Xx

https://www.babyandbump.com/trying-to-conceive/69929-sooo-angry-warning-rant.html

Although some women are coerced into abortions, I generally agree with your statement.

I don't think it's fair AT ALL that some people hope, dream, wish and do everything short of cutting off their limbs for a baby, but some people do it so easily and then just do...that...

 

[todteach]

I'm so sorry hun

 

[JASMAK]

I have to say that even tho I am not FOR abortion (I am very against abortion, probably because I grew up Catholic), but, I do think that there *may* be circumstances where it should be allowed. Rape, child getting pregnant by family, etc. Other than that, I think that parents should educate, and then hey, take responsibility. I think that many women later really regret doing it too. I know someone who aborted twins, and she is now in her 50's (she was early 20's when she did it) and she still is very upset by her decision, even though she knew she couldn't raise children, she knows that she ended two precious lives to only make her life a bit easier. She said as she has grown, she has realized the hastiness of the decision, and how it impacted her life was not something she ever thought about when she made the decision long ago. This woman in a really nice, business woman with a degree. She is smart woman, and it just shows that there can be some real regret and hurt that goes along with it. I think that abortion clinics should really make sure that women who are getting these abortions are properly counselled in this decision. I can't imagine spending 30 years living with regrets, espesially when it comes to killing my own child. I also think that there should be a law on the number of abortions. My sister is a nurse, and says that there is women in who have many many abortions. It IS there form of birth control. That is just sick! But, yeah, I do think that there is situations that come up, that I am not to judge, as much as I would know I wouldn't, couldn't do it, I am not in their shoes.