I'm so scared!

[MissRhead]

Hey so first off I have a LO who is 3 and a half, me and his farther are separated but on good times, we split very soon after his birth. Ive been seeing someone for a couple of months but we decided to leave things (more his side) and I've since discovered he's been on holiday with his ex so I'm presuming their back together. I've just found out today that I'm pregnant! I am SO scared! I've told my mum since I'm very close with her and she said she will help me out no matter what. I'm just panicking I guess. I'm pretty sure this guy will want nothing to do with me but I'm worried about being 22 with 2 children from 2 different farthers) even typing that makes me want to say please don't judge me! I guess I just needed to tell someone as I really don't know what to do next! X

 

[Becky61]

No judging here hun!
Firstly, congratulations! I know its sounds tough, having 2 bubbas as a single mummy, but you can do this!
You really do need to tell FOB though, sooner rather than later, so he cant throw it in your face that you didn't tell him sooner.
Hopefully he will want to play a part in this childs life, and he wont make this a hard time for you.
All the very best
x

 

[bluelilly72]

I've got 3 kids to different men its way it's ment to be never what I planned I know it scary doing it on your own but you will find a routine and its good ur mum willing to help u

 

[MissRhead]

Thanks for the replys they've made me feel better. Im feeling more positive today, been to see my friend so ive had someone to talk things through with. Im very nervous about telling the farther I just dont even know where to begin x

 

[Jade--x]

Congratulations I'm 22 with 2 LO's to 2 different fathers, though mine are 4 and 2, and it wasn't how I expected my life to be at 20, so I know how scary it is. Hope you're ok, and if ever you need someone to talk to I'm always here for a PM

 

[babycrazy1706]

hun as long as you have your mum you will be just fine. try not to worry. big hugs. xx

 

[Jennaxo]

Aw congratulations on baby no.2! It's amazing how much support our mums can be, I'm sure you'll do fantastic!