I'm so sick of being told I'm fine.

[dan-o]

OK so maybe I'm just having a 'bad day' & need to vent ...

..But I'm starting to feel like I can't cope any more

I'm on my 17th consecutive day of bleeding (since my last 23 day bleed) & I'm rapidly losing my patience/sanity.
I feel like I'm going round the twist.

I've had just 16 dry days in the entire 2 months since my ERPC for MMC.

I've been to the doctors countless times & they just listen to my story & tell me I'm fine & it's normal.

But surely this is not normal? ...Is it?

I just wish I could go to sleep & wake up when this miscarriage is finally over

Having a dark day, sorry.

 

[Shelby2007]

Dan-o.. you have been through SO much.. - I hope things getting better for you and start looking up..

 

[babybuffy84]

Oh hunny im so sorry your bound to be feeling down especially after everything that your going through and have been through.I would say that you should be getting more anwsers of your docs,there not exactly being helpful!! Could you see someone else do you have a specialist that your under or anything??
Am sending you a ton of xxxxx

 

[superp123]

Sorry you're having a day. Have you told your doc how much this is bothering you? They sort of fob you off, until you tell them you can't take it anymore. Try calling the nurse and tell her you're at the end of this rope, and something must be done. There's gotta be something they can do to stop the bleeding or at least figure out why?
Sorry that this has gone on sooooo long. Sending a bunch of hugs for you hun.

 

[JJF]

I'm so sorry to hear about your prolonged bleeding. My doc gave me a pill (I'm in the United States) with my most recent (3rd) Miscarriage and the bleeding stopped the very next day so I know there is something they give over here to help. Perhaps there is a pill in your area?

 

[mazza2003]

hi there. I am so sorry this situation continues! As you know I had problems with my treatment during my ectopic and I wrote it all down and gave it to my gp to write to the chief exec of the health board, and suddenly all the consultants wanted to see me again and I was getting offers of IVF in 6 mths if I am not pregnant. I know its time consuming but I found it oddly cathartic too.
Just an idea, but as ever I am thinking of you. XXXXX

 

[RobenR]

Dan-O, you have been through absolute hell and have become one of the strongest women I know. Have your dark day, heaven knows your entitled to it! You'll make it through and we're all here for you!

 

[babytots]

oh hunni. i'm so sorry to hear your so fed up i really wish this bleeding would stop for you. if you feel like this isnt normal demand a second,third or fourth opinion if you need to. kick up a fuss to see a consultant. this is definately not normal imo hunni.

bloody doctors eh?! i really do hope you get some answers to why this is happening as its not fair on you at all to have to go through all this worrying on top of everything else.

always here if need to talk,rant yell lol. x

 

[dan-o]

Thanks guys

I'm going to call the gyne I saw at the hospital, after I get my beta results, later today.
I want another ultrasound, an examination & if needed, another D&C.

I've written everything down as you suggested mazza & I'll do the same as you next week if I get no joy today!

 

[Rosella]

Hi - I saw your post - just wanted to send . It really does not sound normal. I had some problems with my foot a couple of years ago - I wrote it all down with dates etc as a letter of complaint and sent it to the Chief Exec of the hospital cc my MP. Might sound over the top! - but I got the red carpet treatment after that (I had been in the system for months and months and eventually got absolutely fed up with them and it looked pretty bad once it was on paper.)

I think they cannot refuse you proper treatment - hope you get a positive response from the gynae today. best of luck with the results too.


xxx

 

[LilFlower08]

I just recently had a Mc and have been abit shakey ever since but have just started to get strong again... but i cant control my emotions anymore.
Like take this morning, i got up fine got ready for work, drank my tea, and was just about to leave when i felt all down and sad, then burst into tears and couldn't go anywhere for another hour?

It happens alot, i just am doing something normal and then completely out of the blue i burst into tears, or start a row with someone.... i don't know what is happening and i cant control my feelings.

Do you think im going insane? Im worried something is wrong?

 

[LilFlower08]

im really sorry i didnt mean to post my new thread on here, i dont know how that happened.... i really do apologise x

 

[dan-o]

Aww it's OK hun

I get really tearful/short tempered too. I think it's part of the greiving process & it's good to let it all out once in a while. Sending you xxx

 

[LilFlower08]

Yeah, i know, im just so out of control of it and i thought i was getting easier you know.
I knew i'd never get over it - but i was trying and now... i cant even say the word baby out loud...
xxx

 

[dan-o]

Got my hCG back, I'm down to 50, from 58, in a week.
I guess that's good news as it's gone down, just sloooooowly, lol!

I'm going to call the gyne now xx

 

[dan-o]

Agggghh, he's at a conference until monday

 

[babytots]

aww no can you not speak to somebody else hunni? x

 

[superp123]

Having a fit with you. Figures, eh??
Thinking of you.
P

 

[babytots]

forgot to say earler glad the hcg is going down and i hope it doesnt take too long til it reaches zero. x

 

[DiddyDons]