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[dizzy65]

im starting to feel excited about baby coming but im so scared to feel excited about it im afraid that the min i let my guard down that baby will grow wings and leave me OH keeps telling me all is going to be fine but i just dont know and he says its ok to feel happy and i want to be happy more then any thing but im scared to be happy. any one else feel like this?

 

[wanabamummy]

yes i am feeling that way too!! i picked up a pregnancy mag today and then put it back and promised myself i would buy it after i have seen my beanie.

But then at some point we have to start enjoying the pregnancy surely!!

I would try to relax now hun, have you had any scans, to make ease your mind? you are past 12 weeks now so surely thats a good sign?

Kxx

 

[im_mi]

i know how you feel hun. i just tell myself that getting excited about bubs isnt going to make me lose them, and if i dont try to enjoy it while i can i will regret it later. i know its not that simple though hun. i say buy that magazine now and enjoy reading it

 

[Las78]

I know how you feel hun, one minute I was daring to get excited the next I was worried sick. After viability I relaxed a lot but now I'm back to my on and off stressing about prem labour and all thos eother scary things but must say I'm excited a lot more than scared. I hope it will get easier for you too hun x

 

[dizzy65]

My first scan to see bean is in a week. but now it doesnt seem close eough as i want to know if everything is okay with the little one. OH just keeps telling me not to worry all is going to be fine as im showing now. but i still dont know i just want to see it playing on the screen ill feel so much better then but still very worried

 

[millwallrose4]

I have already seen my baby twice on early scans, but I still don't feel ready to relax and admit I'm having a baby. It's really hard to do, but I hope once you've had your scan you will feel able to enjoy it.

 

[philly1982]

Nothing you can do or say will help you feel any better hun. Only seeing your bubs at the scan will ease your worry. I've seen bubs 3 times now and for a while i'm ok but then go back to worrying again. It's so hard after losing a baby, we understand the agony and are so scared it will happen again. Pg is nothing like you see on the movies..... Big huns though hun xxx