I'm terrified.... Any help appreciated.

[AnnNI]

Hello everyone
I'm 29! Mum to 2 1/2 year old which I know I am very lucky to have but I would really love another sibling! Anyways I had mc last July at 5w 3d and got positive preg test at end of January! I went last Thursday for early scan due to mc lady July n I didn't even take oh with me coz I just thought all would be fine! Tech tried external us but couldn't see much n said Putin due to my fat stomach! This upset me a little! I'm about 185 pounds! So u had to have internal scan. I should have been measuring 8w 4 days at scan but was only measuring 7w 1 d and heart rate "wasn't as strong as she would have liked". I have taken some time off work n trying to rest! I had tiny bit of brown at about 6w 5d but nothing since that! Feel like my symptoms r disappearing n finding it very hard to do day to day tasks that I would do in seconds usually! Any advice please xxxxx

 

[carebear1981]

I'm so sorry you are going through a scare. I wish I had some advice. Rest up for sure and take it easy. She didn't tell u the heart rate? Will you be getting another ultrasound soon?
That was rude of her to say you were fat. At almost 12 weeks I already put on 10 lbs and am weighing 175. No one's told me I'm fat and they're lucky for it!

 

[JennaSmith]

I had two scares one at 7w and they couldn't find much had to have internal scan too to find baby in correct place as queried eptopic I was measuring 7+ 3 when I thought I was 8+1! Then again a week or so later I had bright red blood n then brown discharge saw gp who said I was probably miscarrying went for scan 4 days later and found baby clear externally and I was measuring 9w exactly!
I am now 11w today if that scan was right midwife had me at 11+3

Resting is what everyone says to do its boring as anything isn't it! I have no energy at all! Everything seems a chore I hope I get more energy soon!

Hope your baby bean is just playing up and everything is ok. Xx

 

[flou]

I hope everything is ok. Try and relax, which must be hard. The fact that a heartbeat was detected is a positive sign and lowers your risk of mc. I have my fx for you!

 

[babifever]

She used the words " fat stomach"?