Im worried about him? :/

[LonelyAngelx]

I Know this is off topic to anything really but i cant help but worry about my Daughters Dad, my sons in NICU atm due to being born 7 weeks early, i met him at the hospital as he had work, he seemed fine when he walked into the room, i went out the room to the expressing room to express milk, 2 minutes later he came in and he looked worried and stood there really quiet, i asked him if he was ok and he said yeah then walked back out... i dismissed it.. and after leavin to go back to the car he walked infront of me and got in the car and he started crying, i didnt know what to say or do so i left him for a few minutes and asked him what was wrong, he told me he seems to be having these random moments where he starts crying for no aparant reason and then he said he had a horrible gut feeling he wasnt going to be around for long, he was cryin hystericly and it broke my heart seein him like that, the whole 3-4 yrs ive known him ive NEVER seen him cry like that and all i wanted to do was cuddle him but physically couldnt! im worried about him aspecially when he says he feels hes not gna be around for long.. i dnno in what sense he means but im worried... i got 2 kids to think about and id be lost without him around ?? :/

help guys

 

[SilasLove]

Maybe just talk with him, it may just be depression or stress.

 

[Mally01]

Sounds like he could be under stress, suffering from depression or feeling overwhelmed by it all. Try and talk to him properly hun and ask him specifically why he said the words 'I won't be around long? I would get to the bottom of that asap. Hopefully it's nothing serious and he was just feeling really low.If it's clinical depression he may need to see the Doctor. People in the grip of depression can often think morbid thoughts like that.

 

[LonelyAngelx]

I Know, i make sure i ask him everyday and whenever i see him if hes ok, and he says hes fine, i think half the time he puts it on and im not so convinced he is actually ok, i know hes going through alot of stuff at work, he tells me works getting a bit to much for him cos of his manager takes it out on him cos he doesnt speak up so he kinda gets picked on, i try not to ask him too much how hes feeling cos he gets a bit annoyed and starts shouting it just broke my heart seeing him cry like that he looked so upset

 

[Laura2919]

I hope he is feeling better.

 

[LonelyAngelx]

Na hes still pretty much the same, he seemed quiet as anything earlier, didnt say a word to me in the car ride back from seeing our son in hospital , i keep asking him whats on hismind and he keeps it all locked up- ive told him im worried about him and whatevers bothering him i wanna help but he wont open up anymore... and i dont wanna bug him
i think he is depressed but hes not the type of guy to see anyone about it.. he never goes to a doctor unless its life threatening lol... silly really

 

[iyawo]

But it DOES sound life threatening.... he insinuated him life could be ending?? I would consider this a red flag... Is there some way you could really insist that he go talk to someone or talk to a family member or good friend of his to help??

 

[LonelyAngelx]

I Know it sounds like it, he wont listen to me no matter how much i pester him hes always had these mood swings since ive known him, one minute he could be completely fine the next he'll be grumpy as hell.. i think ill talk to him later about it.. been going on for to long tbh!