Ack, no! I love small studios and indie developers! Some of my favourite games are made by one person or by small groups of people. (Dungeons of Dredmor, Legend of Grimrock, La Mulana, Spelunky, Cave Story, Gurk 2, Dark Spire to name a few.) I support small game developers whenever I can. Perhaps there is a misunderstanding and we are talking about different games here. These games do not have any form of microtransactions, in app purchases -- there's the difference. But they're all made by very talented small developers. Personally, I'd rather buy a creative game made by a small, dedicated team than a game made by EA any day, so absolutely no offense to your husband!
The "crap" games I am talking about are the extremely basic ones that essentially require you to spend money to progress. And that's it. (This article does a good job of explaining the ones: https://www.eurogamer.net/articles/2013-04-13-saturday-soapbox-the-high-cost-of-free-to-play). I know that these ones are made with minimal thought and structured only around the getting the player to cough up money. When these sort of games are targeted at toddlers, I have a problem with them. There's a difference between a small studio of creative people with a vision and limited resources, and a small studio of people using psychological manipulation to make a semblance of a game for the sole reason of making money.