Recently, I learned that in some places (possibly outside of Canada), ladies can choose to have a C-Section (elective).
What about here in Canada? I live in Ontario. Can you request it?
My first labour was horrid My little girl couldn't come out, they vacuumed her out (she was stuck in between my small pelvic bones). It was pain as hell. She was a big baby too. I was in labour for about 52 hrs. Yes, 52 hrs They gave me epi, the next day I started having massive headaches (the worst one in my life), which I was told that I had a spinal leakage. Meaning the epi also went up to my brain, causing me to have the most massive headaches (so painful) that I barely moved out of bed, I couldn't move my head or shoulders. Thankfully, after 10 days with all the meds, I didn't have to get a blood patch surgery.
But...within a month after, I had more pain down in my gallbladder area... I barely could move. I was literally crying in pain that I went straight to the ER. They told me because of my hard labour, I had stones around my gallbladder, it was going to spread to my liver. The surgery came within a week, to remove my gallbladder quickly. It was that bad. After the hospital, I had more pain meds.
It was freaking a nightmare
Now I am scared... I really want to request for a C-section after that nightmare I had to go through. Everybody is telling me, that this time will different...but it isn't working with me. I am having nightmares. I wasn't scared with my first pregnancy, knowing that I was going to go through a labour. I am more scared with my 2nd one.
Anyone know if I can request for a C-section? I know they say it is longer recovery...but seriously after what I went through. I think a C-section wouldn't be this hell-ish lol
Thanks!!
What about here in Canada? I live in Ontario. Can you request it?
My first labour was horrid My little girl couldn't come out, they vacuumed her out (she was stuck in between my small pelvic bones). It was pain as hell. She was a big baby too. I was in labour for about 52 hrs. Yes, 52 hrs They gave me epi, the next day I started having massive headaches (the worst one in my life), which I was told that I had a spinal leakage. Meaning the epi also went up to my brain, causing me to have the most massive headaches (so painful) that I barely moved out of bed, I couldn't move my head or shoulders. Thankfully, after 10 days with all the meds, I didn't have to get a blood patch surgery.
But...within a month after, I had more pain down in my gallbladder area... I barely could move. I was literally crying in pain that I went straight to the ER. They told me because of my hard labour, I had stones around my gallbladder, it was going to spread to my liver. The surgery came within a week, to remove my gallbladder quickly. It was that bad. After the hospital, I had more pain meds.
It was freaking a nightmare
Now I am scared... I really want to request for a C-section after that nightmare I had to go through. Everybody is telling me, that this time will different...but it isn't working with me. I am having nightmares. I wasn't scared with my first pregnancy, knowing that I was going to go through a labour. I am more scared with my 2nd one.
Anyone know if I can request for a C-section? I know they say it is longer recovery...but seriously after what I went through. I think a C-section wouldn't be this hell-ish lol
Thanks!!