Incompetent Cervix - stitch/cerclage - threatened labour

[kateqpr]

Little update - on triage as kept being pink when I wiped. Blood showing in my urine too so coming from somewhere. Having a few cramps too. Very scary but hoping yes, it's just an aggravation of the stitch. Fingers crossed x

 

[Irielioness]

Irielioness - glad it all went great. You may be uncomfortable with this or that for two-three days but it will not last. Are you on modified bed rest, what did the doctor say?

And yes, online shopping is the way to go. I used to do that before I got pregnant anyway, can't stand being smothered and stepped over and elbowed in the shops during the holidays. It's as if the end of the world is coming and everyone's on a stampede!

As of right now Im on bedrest for a week, and after that I will be on light activity until our little bugger is here. Im mostly just experiencing back pain from the spinal, and I have some clear watery discharge but other than that I'm feeling pretty normal.

I have been to lots of websites adding things to my wishlist! This little one is going to be so spoiled, just like his sister

 

[garrickbaby]

Im done and it hurt pretty bad too me. They decided to do it without any pain meds. Now the waiting begins.

Congrats soon your little bundle will be here with you. Keep us posted.

 

[lizziedripping]

Hi truthb, glad to hear all went well with stitch removal - I'll bet you'll be waiting for lo to arrive at 40wks!! It's usually the case Look after yourself hun

Irie - I love the name you've picked for lo. Keep resting honey, atleast for the next few weeks. Here's to a happy and healthy few months for you x

Kate hun, the pink staining can be from your cervix and stitch-related but harmless. You're in the best place, and I'm keeping everything crossed that this is 'something and nothing'. Not getting on here much at the moment, but will try to get on tomorrow to see how you're getting on. Lots of love x

Merry Christmas ladies, if I don't get to say it tomorrow Remember to enjoy christmas, but still take things reasonably easy. Let the family take the strain

 

[Mommy's Angel]

Hoping and praying for Amy and lo. My prayers are with you and hoping all is well Amy.

Merry Christmas everyone!

 

[LaRockera]

Merry Chirstmas to you, MA! Lovely avatar by the way. xx

 

[kateqpr]

Hi all

Back home late last night. Apparently a part of my cervix looks red and inflamed hence the slight bleeding. They were thorough and did swab, urine and bloods and initial tests showed all came back clear and staph infection is clearing up nicely.

Been told all indicators suggest it should hopefully settle down but need to watch out for worst symptoms or if I get a temperature as they want to make sure cervix doesn't get infected as that would probably mean they would have to remove the stitch.

Just feel so frightened that it's yet another unforeseen hurdle and worry. Spotting has stopped but having some cervical pain so trying to relax and not assume the worst! Which is hard. But what can I do?!

 

[LaRockera]

Kate- really glad to hear results came back clear hon, I was waiting for an update.

I suppose removing the stitch would be an undesired outcome, but it's very positive that you're almost 24 weeks already. Every week that passes, IC will become less of an issue. I'd think in the worst case scenario, you'd have to go on bedrest- not ideal I understand, but an option to get you full term. To be fair though I think you'll be fine.

Haven't you been prescribed antibiotics after your cerclage?

x

 

[kateqpr]

I'm on antibiotics now for the staph infection and gave been on two lots for a uti bug nothing for the cervix. The results are good news so far but am a bit worried I'm getting slight pains. Just feel like I'm on high alert! And too scared to move much. I guess j worry worry worse case scenario of the stitch removal would automatically mean losing my baby. My husband is getting very frustrated at my negativity. So am I I guess but struggling to be positive. Just tired and emotionally drained!

 

[LaRockera]

I'm on antibiotics now for the staph infection and gave been on two lots for a uti bug nothing for the cervix. The results are good news so far but am a bit worried I'm getting slight pains. Just feel like I'm on high alert! And too scared to move much. I guess j worry worry worse case scenario of the stitch removal would automatically mean losing my baby. My husband is getting very frustrated at my negativity. So am I I guess but struggling to be positive. Just tired and emotionally drained!

You won't lose your baby hon, you're past the dangerous period, you're almost viable, you've got no infections and your stitch is still there. Although easier said than done, I know. I can tell you one thing though, after 27 weeks, which is just 3 weeks away from you, everything will change. You won't believe the difference in you. You'll start living again.

By the way I've got urine test strips from amazon, just dipped one this morning, and it came clear and made me take a big breath. If this will help put your mind at ease re infections, go ahead and buy them (and still annoy triage at every indication, no matter how small, which is what I do and I'm darn proud about it. )

 

[x-amy-x]

Hey, for those of you that dont have me on fb... my little miss arrived yesterday weighing 1lb 14oz and is doing well

https://a7.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/393355_10150480921503394_532428393_8611153_1876878105_n.jpg

 

[LaRockera]

Oh honey, she's a sweetheart. I wholeheartedly wish she does brilliantly! I'm sure she will.

Please keep updating us when you are in the mood and you have a chance.

My warmest wishes to you and your new bubba, hon.

 

[HelenGee]

Amy - Connie is beautiful, bless her for wanting to make an appearance for Christmas. Wishing you and yours a safe journey to family life x

Kate- it's hardly surprising cervixes become irritated, it really sounds like it's all under control.

Merry Christmas ladies, wishing you all a peaceful and relaxing time x

 

[lizziedripping]

Amy hun, congratulations - Connie is beautiful I hope she now goes from strength to strength. Take care, and if you need any advice/support for the NICU journey then don't hesitate to ask xxx

Kate - You must be so anxious, it is a worrying time hun, and I totally understand how you must be feeling. I do know that cervical erosion causes bleeding and would make the cervix appear red and inflamed - it is essentially harmless to you and baby tho. Obviously there are so many unknowns, and that feeling of not daring to breath, let alone move sounds so familiar to me and brings back the memories of weeks 20-28, very nerve wracking times.

Even when I reached 28wks I don't think I relaxed much because then I told myself I'd only be happy if I made 32wks, and then at 32wks, 36wks!!! I was never satisfied, and most people around me just didn't understand (inc. dh). Unless you have been there, and felt that much helplessness, then you can't possibly understand. It is a uniquely terrifying experience - to feel that even an innocuous trip to the loo might cause 'changes' is like a private hell that no one else can truly appreciate.

Despite your scares, and bad experiences, there is still every chance this will all be fine and the pregnancy will go to term hun. hard as it is to believe, that happens more often than not with IC after a stitch. Take things easy sweet, and try to enjoy your Christmas day as much as you can xxx


Ma hun, your pic is lovely - Merry Christmas xxx

 

[kateqpr]

Thanks Helen and lizzie - so good to read your thoughts as positivity is a godsend right now. It's so hard explaining to people how terrifying this all is, especially as I'm in those horrible few weeks where each day means so much. If I can just make it few the next few weeks unscathed...

I'm going to go back to triage probably on Monday or Tuesday to get my full test results back and to get the doctor to gently look at the cervix again and hopefully give me some reassurance. The pains have eased and had only the lightest bit of pink once today when I wiped so am so hoping it is settling down. It would be nice to be a little less scared for Christmas day!

Happy Christmas everyone, and Amy, congratulations. She looks like a strong beautiful girl. I hope you're feeling positive and recovering well too.

I guess let's all be thankful for what we have got. I have a wonderful husband, a cheeky daughter I adore and great family and friends. It's so easy to lose perspective and sight of the good things when you're having a difficult time. So thanks again for your kind words.

Now best go and deliver a stocking and eat a mince pie for one sleeping but excited little girl! HO HO HO!

 

[apsara.m]

amy she is beautiful...take care both of you
all the very best kate honey
merry Christmas to all of you

 

[vaali]

Amy congrats!! Connie is awesome! im sure you both are doing & will do strong.. do update us on the birth story when you find time bud! we are all ears here..
Kate everything is gonna be fine bud.. lets stay hopeful!
Merry christmas to one & all!!!

 

[vaali]

Sorry, posted twice..

 

[garrickbaby]

Lizzie I totally agree with you sometimes you will never be satified with whatever week you are until your little one is here with you... i'm going on 34 weeks and can't wait to get to 36not really scared about the IC but that something else could happen. The games the mind can play is crazy.... i'm definitely more relax and feel like any other pregnant person at the point but now with ever pain and ache I think she's on her way and hope to have her closer to my due date.

Congratulations Amy- she's beautiful, how you are doing well

Truth- do you feel any different since you stopped the 17p shots, are you feeling more contractions or anything, my doc will stop mine at 36 weeks.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holiday's to all, enjoy your families.

 

[heychickie]

Amy - congratulations one you little one's arrival! She sounds strong like her mama, and I'm hoping she will grow splendidly for you.