Incompetent Cervix - stitch/cerclage - threatened labour

Well, both Truth and Susanah should be cuddling their long- awaited 'babes in arms' right about now. So excited, and hoping all is well. Will you ladies join me in wishing the well? Xxx

I can't wait to hear their good news, Its crazy how we are on pins and needles throughout our pregnancies hoping and praying that our babies stay put and then at the end can't wait to get them out.

......I may be next... Went in today and my amniotic fluid went from 15 to 7. So I may be having my little girl on Friday via c-section if the fluid has decreased anymore. Wish me luck.
 
Truthbtold & susie.. im so curiously waiting to see the pics of your cute LOs.. yay!! yes lizzie, im excited as well & wishing all went well with them!!
Garrick i wish you loads & loads of luck bud!! ah.. & friday is tomo (well, for us in India..)! wow.. how sweeet!! she is gonna be cuddling up in your arms in no time!!!..
Well, after hearing all these awesome news first thing in the morning..I cant wait to have mine & yes, right now! (ok.. i think my monkey boy is laughing hard at me getting restless.. ouch! strong kicks!!) :D
 
lizzie iam 35+2 weeks now. i was really hoping for a vaginal delivary as i had a stitch placed. anyway i just wanna hold my lo. i just want a safe delivary it doesn't matter if its c sec or vaginal.
kate my doc told me after 35 weeks the position doesn;t change much.. yes i had to wait only 3 more weeks to hold lo
MA doc told me extended breech so lo is laying horizontal with hands and legs curled up i think. in my scan i saw hands and legs very near. now my PP is way bit high so has to increase insulin intake. anyway not much weight gain and no water retention(touch wood) so far. how is our sweet little amelia doing?
lizzie as you said i can't wait to hear truth and susanna's update with their cute little ones photos.....
garrickbaby so close to hold lo... yay.... tomorrow.. so sweet... please post los photos and birthstory as soon as possible.. lots and lots of prayers and good luck to you dear
vaali.. wait till jan 20 then we will be able to hear your story with lovely photos...
lots and lots of love to all of you
 
lizzie iam 35+2 weeks now. i was really hoping for a vaginal delivary as i had a stitch placed. anyway i just wanna hold my lo. i just want a safe delivary it doesn't matter if its c sec or vaginal.
kate my doc told me after 35 weeks the position doesn;t change much.. yes i had to wait only 3 more weeks to hold lo
MA doc told me extended breech so lo is laying horizontal with hands and legs curled up i think. in my scan i saw hands and legs very near. now my PP is way bit high so has to increase insulin intake. anyway not much weight gain and no water retention(touch wood) so far. how is our sweet little amelia doing?
lizzie as you said i can't wait to hear truth and susanna's update with their cute little ones photos.....
garrickbaby so close to hold lo... yay.... tomorrow.. so sweet... please post los photos and birthstory as soon as possible.. lots and lots of prayers and good luck to you dear
vaali.. wait till jan 20 then we will be able to hear your story with lovely photos...
lots and lots of love to all of you

Hi there! :hi:

You know, my hormones have still been out of whack since delivery. I think it may have been the progesterone that caused the Pupps rash for two months. I have an appointment with my endocrinologist because my sugars have been sky high!! :dohh: I was on an insulin pump for the last half of my pregnancy with Jackson Jeffrey and then just kept it for ttc and my pregnancy with Amelia because it was the safest drug to be on while pregnant/tt. NOW though, I need to get healthy so I want off it for awhile. Extra insulin stores as fat. I can't seem to lose mine. Ugh!:nope: I will say that Amelia is worth it all though!:cloud9:

As for Amelia, for the most part she's doing well. Two days ago she started getting a bit fussier. I'm not sure if it's the reflux, gas, or she's been sucking on things a lot more and I'm wondering if she's getting ready to cut teeth. Could be all three. :shrug: I feel totally clueless!:wacko::haha:

Waiting patiently ladies! What very happy moments with all these babies.:happydance::flower:
 
Hi ladies,I'm new to this forum and was just looking for some advice...I had my cerclage placed on Dec 13th, at 14 weeks. Yesterday I felt pulling on my cervix and had three contractions that I was actually aware of. I drank a whole bunch of water and put me feet up, the contractions stopped, but I still feel the pulling today. Any suggestions?

I remember having contractions for a few days after my cerclage was placed, and was on tocolytes for this reason (but had to stop them after three days as they raised my heartbeats- stopped them, nothing happened). What you describe sounds normal to me, but always give your consultant a call if in doubt. :winkwink:

Well, both Truth and Susanah should be cuddling their long- awaited 'babes in arms' right about now. So excited, and hoping all is well. Will you ladies join me in wishing the well? Xxx

Absolutely! I wholeheartedly wish that everything was absolutely perfect, and both truth and Susie are holding their perfect little miracles as we speak!
 
Hey everyone,

Yes, big congrats to Truthbtold and Susie (and Garrickbaby?! Getting confused, as so many LO's seem to be due right now)- can't wait to see photos and hear your birth stories!!!

Seems like there's a lot of positivity going round right now, which is great. Good karma for everyone hopefully.

My news - had my pre term clinic appointment today. Three hours in total! I had my FFN test, which came back negative. Yaaayy!! I did a saliva test too (which involved sitting for half an hour trying to dribble into a test tube) as part of their research project. Saw my consultant, and all looks nice and normal. It looks like i have another UTI, which is depressing, but not surprising. Just waiting for confirmation from the lab, but have antibiotics all set to take. Just seems that no matter what i do (have been drinking tonnes of water, cranberry pure dilute and tablets), still it happens...

So next appointment in two weeks time. I'm also being signed over to midwife care too, as my doctor said she wanted to me start trying to feel like a 'normal' pregnant woman, and getting to spend time with the midwives would help convince me I am having a baby!

So feeling quite good today. I hate to say that, as i don't want to jinx it, but i do feel there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Only two more weeks of being strict with bed rest, then i think i will start to allow myself a bit more excitement and the odd trip out. In fact, i'm even planning a first Mothercare trip if all goes well at 28 weeks, to buy my first new baby thing....

Now I just have to try to concentrate on positive thoughts. My mind does tend to wander, and think something else is bound to wrong. I fully expect another bleed and stay in hospital (think this is my coping mechanism... mental preparation!) and sometimes i start to worry about other things going wrong (still birth etc) but i just have to rein those negative thoughts in.

I hope you're all happy and well and feeling positive too. Sending lot of love

Kate x
 
Kate - Yes! I'm so happy to hear you're finally starting to breathe, even gradually. I also started shopping around 28 weeks and now I'm all over the place with stuff and pre-travel arrangements! :wacko: Excellent news about the ffn test too, and as for the UTIs, I've read that sometimes it does happen to pregnant women, and they have to go on low-dose antibiotics for quite a while. Don't worry too much though, it takes A LOT of the infection to get to your kidneys and even then you can get treatment. Drinking loads of water helps flash the bugs out so even though it doesn't cure UTI, it can at least stop it from spreading.

I'll tell you what. Why don't you start a journal for your last trimester of pregnancy? Then you can write about all the baby stuff you'll be buying and keep yourself busy with other things. :flower:
 
Hi Ladies,

Hope you're all well, Kate you sound perfectly rational. Well done, it's hard to keep a sense of perspective when you're willing away the hours.

Truth, Susie- much love and best wishes- hope your little bundles are safely in your arms.

Garrick- you must be so excited now x

As for us, today is Bella's first birthday! A huge milestone that we never thought we'd see. It's been a wonderful day, celebrating, reminiscing and hopefully laying some fears about Bella to rest. I finally think I'm over the fear that I've escaped the ic misery, therefore something else awful will happen. Little miss has loved the day, having lunch in a cafe, pinching peas off her Daddy's plate and generally charming all around her. I am so very lucky. I'll post some pictures when I get them organised x
 
Hi Ladies,

Hope you're all well, Kate you sound perfectly rational. Well done, it's hard to keep a sense of perspective when you're willing away the hours.

Truth, Susie- much love and best wishes- hope your little bundles are safely in your arms.

Garrick- you must be so excited now x

As for us, today is Bella's first birthday! A huge milestone that we never thought we'd see. It's been a wonderful day, celebrating, reminiscing and hopefully laying some fears about Bella to rest. I finally think I'm over the fear that I've escaped the ic misery, therefore something else awful will happen. Little miss has loved the day, having lunch in a cafe, pinching peas off her Daddy's plate and generally charming all around her. I am so very lucky. I'll post some pictures when I get them organised x


Sounds like a great 1st birthday. Happy Birthday Bella!
 
Helen sweetie - happy birthday to Bella! :happydance: May she live a long, happy, healthy, prosperous life, always surrounded by people that adore her and she adores!

:kiss:
 
I've been lurking at Amy's journal, it seems that her little girl is doing good. I'm really happy to see so positive updates, and wish from the bottom of my heart that her little fighter grows healthier and healthier by the day, and that all the nightmare is behind her now. :flower:
 
Update on me.... My aminotic fluid was 7 cm on Wednesday and it came back up to 12 cm so i'm just being watched and will have my regular appointment on Wednesday.... So no baby for me right now. It look like I will finally get to Full term.

Hope everyone else is doing well.
 
Garrickbaby - that's great news! Enjoy a quiet weekend at home instead of the hospital!

Larockera - yup, been keeping an eye on Amy's journal too. Little Connie is looking so well, especially now her eyes are open and she looks so alert. Lets hope that things continue to go well for Amy and Connie. Life in the neonatal unit must be so difficult for the family. She's doing amazingly well. Her story has been a real inspiration for me.

Hope everyone else is well!

I'm home alone tonight - husband has gone out for a chinese with his best friend, so i've just snuck out before he went (my little trip out today....) and gone to the local McDonald's drive thru. I have just pigged out on the biggest plate of chips and cheeseburger ever. I even allowed myself a few sucks on a diet coke.

I now feel DISGUSTED with myself! I never eat McDonalds - but for some reason, it becomes my nemesis in pregnancy, and i end up thinking about burgers wistfully. Last pregnancy, i ended up driving there in my pyjamas late at night to satisfy my craving. So weird!!

Oh, and some good news. My lovely consultant called me today to say that after sending my urine off to the lab, it turns out i haven't got a UTI after all. Weh hey!

Now, do i have the Mcflurrie in my fridge, or not?...
 
Kate - you're most certainly entitled to eat junk every once in a while, don't beat yourself up, okay? You've been exhausting yourself with worry, give yourself a treat.

And yay for no infections - FINALLY you can breathe!
 
Kate- We all deserve to pig out sometimes.... you may feel guilty and disgusted aftwards but i'm sure it was soooo good going down. :)
 
Now, do i have the Mcflurrie in my fridge, or not?...

:rofl: Thanks for that Kate, you really cheered me up tonight :rofl:

As for pigging out on Maccyds - the pregnant body wants what it wants hun, and I really wouldn't worry about it. After the twins were born is when I got my burger craving, and I couldn't get enough double cheeseburgers, chips, chocolate, and sausage rolls. I was on a junk food drive, and put it down to breast feeding and my body needing the 'quick fix'. Just made sure to limit it to once a week and intersperse it with plenty of fruit and veg :)

I'm more interested in your sudden venturing out to the drive thru - you may not have noticed the change in yourself, but you seem more relaxed and feel able to make even that short journey. Are you steadily feeling like you can start 'living' a little more? I hope so :hugs:

Garrick, hang in there chick. Pleased to hear you are able to go on a couple more weeks. Even at this late stage, its better for baby to stay put for as long as possible. Hope youre ok hun :hugs:

Truthb has had her baby btw ladies :happydance: Hope she doesn't mind me saying, her little boy Jeremiah (gorgeous name), arrived on the 11th weighing 7Ibs 11. Way to go Truth - lots of love to you and lo, so so happy for you all :hugs:

Helen hun, Happy Birthday to Bella for yesterday :hugs Has it really been a year already!?!? Bet she's lovely, any chance we could see some pics of Bella and her brother? It's funny how I create a mental image of the ladies and their babies here, but when they post pics their families are seldom what I had imagined.....lol. It's just nice to put names to faces :hugs:

MA - with Amelia, it could well be something and nothing. Up to about a year old, their temperament and fussiness ebbs and flows and is rarely anything you are, or are not doing hun. I always say that baby behaviour gets better by degrees. They seem to turn a corner at 6, 12, 24wks then again at 6, 8 and 12mths. It feels like you just get them settled, have a run of 'good nights', then they have you pacing the floor at midnight again for no apparent reason. I believe that over the centuries parents have attributed these lapses to teething and colic (which it sometimes is), but most of the time it is just their 'adjustment' to life outside the womb, and as their brain develops and grows (rapidly in the first year), they are often overwhelmed, protest and really let you know about it!

At the end of the first year any sleep problems are usually resolved, and then each year after that they just get more and more delightful :) One of the twins has always been 'easy', but the other has been more typical of my babies and was very fussy in his first year. He improved hugely from 12mths, but it is only in these last few weeks have we really seen him 'blossom'. It is almost like someone has flicked a switch in his brain and he is suddenly charming, settled and happy.

I was lucky that I already knew this stage was coming because of my experience with the others, and that is why motherhood really does get easier the more you have. Knowing there is light at the end of the tunnel is a brilliant thing which helps you through the difficult times. PM me any time chick if I can help at all. :hugs:
 
Thank you Garrick and LaRock for Bela's birthday wishes, they mean so much more to us coming from ladies who've experienced the cerclage trauma.

That's great news for you Garrick, everything is looking amazing for you. I remember back in August, we were on holiday in Spain and you were experiencing hurricanes and had to take shelter. We had no wi-fi, but I was desperate to check in and make sure you were ok. That seems like a lifetime ago now. Which is brilliant!:hugs:

Kate- I was such a miserable cow being stuck on bed rest - I think if I'd allowed myself to sneak out to McDonald's every now and again I might have been in a better psychological state at the end of it. Just enjoy it! I don't need an excuse to sneak in the odd burger here and there, pregnant or not. I can't pretend I love eating healthily all the time, just in front of my children :hugs: where's next on the hitlist, BK or Subway?! X :hugs:
 
Hi all,
I've put a few picies on here, some from Christmas and some from Bella's birthday. I couldn't upload all the ones i wanted :dohh:

Lizzie - i know exactly what you mean, I always have a different mental image of the ladies on here in comparison to the real pictures i see. I'm a really nosey parker tho' and I just love seeing other amazing ladies with their gorgeous families. :thumbup:

I couldn't roatate a couple of the pictures, sorry x
 

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...and the last one...it's impossible to take a picture of all four us not looking ridiculous! x
 

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Helen - thank you for the pictures, you guys are a wonderful family, and it's also lovely to finally be able to put a (gorgeous) face to your posts. :flower: Bella looks beautiful, it must have been an amazing evening for you, guys. xxx
 

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