Hello everyone.
Jimmy - I keep reading your updates with much enthusiasm! Can't wait to read more good news and see a few pix hopefully.
kcmb0886 - 3cm is a great cervical length. The average cervix is between 2.5-5cm. Doctors will monitor you for IC if you actually have less than 2.5, and many women reach the end with less than 1cm cervix. Don't worry hon, you're cervical length is just fine. Plus, cervices are dynamic: they may gain or lose length throughout your pregnancy depending on pressure, cramps etc. Lizzie will be able to tell you more. Monitoring the cervix at this stage is the right thing to do, and I'd also say, rest as much as you can just in case. Can you avoid house chores? I'd also stay on pelvic rest, just in case.
Selina- while it's true that with elective cerclages it's somewhat easier, I refrained from sex for the whole of the second trimester and then on the third, when I finally saw that I kept measuring 48mm at 27 weeks, I...erm... starting orgasming myself, leaving my vagina well alone.

So I'd suggest you do stay on pelvic rest until you have a clearer idea of your cervical length.
Smile- typical NHS handling.

Every time I'd go in, people would ask me 'why do I have a cerclage since it's my first pregnancy'. They didn't like the fact that Greek doctors were overcautious. My - very, very strong- suggestion is to try and monitor your cervix with private TVU scans. Can you afford it? It's really worth cutting from somewhere else. Or else, make a fuss and demand they keep checking you regularly. Many wonderful women here had their hearts broken due to NHS negligence and complacency, and it makes me absolutely mad. I'm not trying to scare you- perhaps it'll all be fine- but why risk it? Go privately. Honestly. Do it.
Lizzie, Helen, Christiana, bookfish, and everyone else- lots and lots of love.
