Bf hun

My heartfelt thoughts go out to you and your poor Mum who has had such a traumatic time over event weeks
ALL the symptoms you describe are absolutely normal with twins. I felt like I was in labour from 20wks, as did my friend who was also carrying twins at the same time. She had very painful bh contractions from 28wks, but still got to 39wks.
It is not surprising to me that your scar is giving you some problems given the extra stretching your uterus has to do. This is ok and to be expected as the scar tissue expands. At 30wks you are probably carrying 7Ibs of baby plus the additional water and extra placenta. This is the equivalent of a full term uterus with a singleton so the stretching is immense. Your cervix however is closed, and likely to stay that way so long as you keep resting and giving your body a helping hand.
Keep focusing on the fact that I had the equivalent of 24Ibs in my uterus by 38wks but my cervix didn't change at all from 25wks. True I didn't have a section scar to contend with, but there have been many twin ladies who have, but haven't had any issues with it.
A lady over in the twins section had one set of big twins via c section (6 and 7Ibs) at 37wks, then went on to get pregnant with a second set within 6mths of the first and they were both 7+Ibs! She made it to her section date again at 37wks, but didn't have any scar rupturing problems despite her first section being so recent. She was an ideal candidate for scar rupturing since her twins were big, and her first scar so new, but she was fine. Her aches and pains were like every other twin lady's, excrucitating!
I didn't really sleep for more than an hour at a time from 28wks, so I know that the discomfort was constant and pretty bad. Everything hurt, particularly low down in my abdomen and pelvis.
Twins have a habit of delivering early hun, but this is usually around 34/35wks, not 30. I think you'll easily make that gestation so try to hang on and have faith my darlin'. Love to you all, and please send my warmest regards to your parents. They don't know me, but I think of them and their terrible loss often
Bluesstar hun, so sorry that you've had the shock news about your cervix. The lovely Helen and Chris have said it all really so I don't want to ramble on needlessly, except to say that their advice is brilliant and that you should be pursuing the stitch option if at all possible.
I presented at 23wks with my second baby, but by then my cervix had dilated with membranes bulging. Had I been checked a few weeks earlier, funneling would have been seen, and a stitch could have rescued the pregnancy. You are currently in a brilliant position for a stitch to work well. Tho there is shortening and funneling, it isn't catastrophic and your membranes are still intact. Stitching could work wonders.
All that said, there have been women here with more extensive cervical changes who have staggered on to term with just rest and progesterone alone. Even with no intervention there are likely some ladies who go on in pregnancy oblivious to cervical changes, yet still make it. I would say tho that now you are aware of a potential issue, it's time to act and demand the maximum support if you can.
Keep us posted honey, lots of love x
Kate - lovely to hear from you

Lo sounds gorgeous, but totally knackering as the little darlings always are

You're doing well even to have posted this much. Thanks for the update, will be thinking of you
