I do hope all works out for your friend. Sounds like she has a good friend in you.
Are you been treated for your ic? Mine started at 21mm and is down to 17mm. I have been on cyclogest for a month and have fortnightly scans. Can not have a stitch unfortunately
She's a lovely girl and has a lot of friends. If friends could cure her, she'd be well away. We're still crossing fingers she won't need a full hysterectomy, we should know on monday.
I've got a stitch this time. I was monitored last time. was meant to be every 2 weeks, but it was 3 weeks between my last scan and Quinn's birth. DO NOT settle for anything less than every 2 weeks. In fact if yours is now 17mm are they seeing you more often? AFAIK most UK clinics don't recommend bedrest, but since you can't get a stitch (why btw?) are you able to stay off your feet, and perhaps signed off work.It seems to work wonders for the american girls. Certainly after my labour started if we'd managed to stop the contractions I would have been on bed rest, but seems silly to have to get to those extremes to do that. Also you need to discuss what they would do ifyou go into labour. The assumption is that it won't be an infection causing the labour, so it would make sense to try and stop contractions. The protocol is only to try and stop them after 24 weeks, and only long enough to get steriods in. You need to discuss with your consultant the plan.
They didn't try and stop mine at 22 weeks, despite the fact our son had no chance. this time they will intervene (after 20 weeks). Indamethacin has been mentioned, which is safe before 24 weeks, but not after. To be honest they have no chance before 24 weeks, so I'd be willing to take anything. But when I was in labour I wasn't told I wasn't being given anything but pain killers.
It's hard to be insistant with dismissive doctors, but I do hope you can discuss this with him.
Another,very slim possibility is there's a clinical trial in london for a silicone pessary/ring to fit around the cervix, instead of a stitch. Maybe that would be a possibility??
Hope you're doing ok. What day of the week are your scans?