Incompetent Cervix - stitch/cerclage - threatened labour

[Tink_0123]

Wunderful, great cl sweetie! glad you're feeling better. Good luck on your GTT

Lizzie, glad to hear from you! hope you and you're family are doing well

Ich, how are you and J doing?

All other ladies, I hope you're all doing well. Keep those little ones cooking

AFM, 35 weeks tomorrow. Im growing very anxious to meet Audrey. I think DH is getting nervous, he doesn't say anything, but I know him lol.. My countdown continues, 8 more days of bed rest and progesterone supps yay!!

 

[DAYDAY24]

Hi tink im ok have not so good days . Only 26 days to get to my goal of 28 weeks. So happy for you almost off bedrest!!

 

[Tink_0123]

Hi tink im ok have not so good days . Only 26 days to get to my goal of 28 weeks. So happy for you almost off bedrest!!

Hang in there Day, you'll be at 28 in no time all. Remain positive, although sometimes its easier said than done. You're doing great, I'm sure at the end of this journey those boys will appreciate everything you've been through for them. Sending tons of positive vibes and lots of your way.

Yes, almost off bed rest. I'm actually going to put the finishing touches to my bag today in case anything happens in the near future hehe

 

[MizzPodd]

Congrats Tink! you must be super excited!

Day day hang in there mama! It'll be here before you know it. I just got there after thinking it would take forever!!! You're in my thoughts.

AFM- going tonight to get ffn test... Pray it's negative! I'm still getting regular contractions but as long as my stitch holds its okay with me lol they already dilated the part that wasn't stitch but I'm confident the stitch will hold. 10 more weeks of bedrest to go lol seems a lot but will go by fast I hope!!

 

[Mommy's Angel]

Tink, I LOVE the name Audrey! I'm loving how the older names are starting to come back. Names like Amelia, Audrey, Sophia, etc. They just feel like names of matriarchs of families. My grandmas was Elizabeth but she hated the name and preferred to be called Betty. They're all just warm names that seem to share a plethora of love as I think of all the women in my own family. Strong, wise, loving. All of which I LOVE to name a little girl after.

Thank you for your kind words. I can't believe some of you have read that far. lol It's amazing we've gotten this far and I pray my story of loss and triumph will give someone else hope when they feel down in the dumps.

I went in today for labs and a sono and so far my uterus looks LOVELY. I have a tipped uterus so they can never see my hiding ovaries until they start getting bigger follies. Looks like all the numbers came back satisfactory so they'll be seeing me again on Monday. So excited, yet I know this process takes time and could be months. I'm more at peace than I was though. Even on hormones!

So glad you've gotten this far. I love hearing great stories. I pray everyone in here gets one. I know how terrifying it can be and how depressing it can be on bed rest. It DOES help though!

Mizz, your right, those 10 weeks will all of a sudden go QUICK! Keep your head up.

 

[Prayerfulmom2]

Guess who is in an open crib????

 

[Tink_0123]

Guess who is in an open crib????

Thats great!! So happy for the both of u.. Yay for Missy..

 

[Agiboma]

@MA good luck with ttc
@tink yeah bedrest almost over
@dayday just like your name says one day at a time
@ mizzpod hoping the test is negative and all remains stable
@babymaybe how are you coming along
@hope i hope the backpain has settled down
AFM went out did some waxing and it hurt to no end LO was curling up like what is going on here LOL, bought some more things for my hospital bag and its now complete

 

[Agiboma]

@prayerful that is wonderful news Yeah Missy!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Mommy's Angel]

AFM went out did some waxing and it hurt to no end LO was curling up like what is going on here LOL, bought some more things for my hospital bag and its now complete

You went out and waxed?! Your too funny! I think by the time my c-section took place I didn't care who saw my hooha because modesty went out the door with the whole process. I think the worst was when I ended up with C-diff. I had the trotts AND was barfing for hours. My worst nightmare came true when I did both on the emergency room bed in front of a colleague of my husbands. I just sat there in a pool of everything bawling my eyes out because I had made an awful impression.

 

[TLM21]

prayerful so happy for both of you! so exciting!
agiboma I bet it did hurt, don't know how you did but is awesome!
tink I'm counting like it's me getting if bed rest, lol
day I'm with you trying to move time a little faster...
prayerful your good news agiboma your waxing too made my day, lol
hugs to everyone

 

[Agiboma]

AFM went out did some waxing and it hurt to no end LO was curling up like what is going on here LOL, bought some more things for my hospital bag and its now complete

You went out and waxed?! Your too funny! I think by the time my c-section took place I didn't care who saw my hooha because modesty went out the door with the whole process. I think the worst was when I ended up with C-diff. I had the trotts AND was barfing for hours. My worst nightmare came true when I did both on the emergency room bed in front of a colleague of my husbands. I just sat there in a pool of everything bawling my eyes out because I had made an awful impression.

I know the feeling lol last time with my son i was on hospital bedrest and everyday the team of dr and nurses no less than 7 people will come into the room and yes they did examinations vaginal one's well all my pride went out the window those days this time i just felt like being different lol my legs and lady bits are still tingling.

 

[Mommy's Angel]

You've got gutts! That would be the last thing on my mind before the birth. OUCH! That pain would be enough to put me in labor.

 

[Agiboma]

You've got gutts! That would be the last thing on my mind before the birth. OUCH! That pain would be enough to put me in labor.

At some point during the process i though i was certainly heading to l&d as my bump kept getting tight and LO kept moving up Just wanted the whole expereince this time around, never had it with my son and im not doing this again lol

 

[Hope2302]

@ day, day. Before you know it you will be 28weeks.
@ tink, yay for 35 weeks! Go you
@ agiboma, 35 weeks and counting and as for you getting your lady bits done, you are one brave lady. I am a wimp when it comes to pain. I did manage to shave everywhere yesterday though. My bits, armpits, legs. I felt like I was turning into an ape with the amount of hair on me. My lady bits weren't easy to shave as I couldn't see just had to feel around for hair.
@ prayerful, missy is a champion. Looks like she will be out soon. It wasn't long after my daughter went into an open crib that she came home. Hope that's the case here.
@ baby, how are you?
@ wunderful, how is it going too?
@ twinkle, I hope you are getting more relaxed with each passing day.
@ Tlm , how are you too
@ shelby and iCh, how are you mommas doing with your lil ones?
@ mommy angel, i remember having my daughter and I had no pain seconds before even minutes to her coming out. I was actually snacking when she flew out of me. She was a mere 640grams so very tiny. She was on the bed and my midwife pressed the emergency button, in seconds there were about 20 people in the room. Obgyn's, nurses, the NICU guys all staring at my bushy bits. I did feel embarassed to say the least.

All other ladies, I hope you are all feeling strong and coping well?

I am still hoping for a few more weeks here. Chances of not getting to 34 weeks is 95% so I am praying that those odds are beaten! My hospital bag is packed . The back pain went on its own so I am feeling good and hope it remains like this.

 

[Agiboma]

@hope glad to hear the back pain went away, im sending you positive energy to keep lo baking till 37 weeks at least.
AFM im gonna summon the courage to take my 2 year old to the mall today, wish me luck he is a bag full of energy and more

 

[garronsmom]

I have spent DAYS, literally, reading this thread from day 1. I am on SBR, so have nothing but time! I am almost 18w, so am in for the long haul

I wanted to introduce myself- my name is Aubrey, and we live in Maine.

I am 17w+ 4 today with a preventative cerclage placed at 13w. I started taking the p17 shots last week. My CL has been good- 3.2-4.1.

This week- 2.0.

I had been taking it easy, but not on bedrest. I am so totally freaked out. They hooked me up for contractions- none- and haven't felt any. No infection, no bacterial vaginosis, no increased discharge, no bleeding, nothin'.

My dr said to just stay down, which I will, obviously. He said the cervix is dymanic (I know) and he wasn't concerned with one reading, expecially since I have no other signs. I was a little more active this week, but no insanely so.

The baby is doing great- no issues with her.

I should mention this is my 2nd cerclage- my first cerclage baby went to 41w. I was on pretty strict bedrest, just in case, and though I bounced around a bit, I was never lower than 2.3 and that was much later in the pregnancy. The bedrest was more preventative last time, but this time, not so much.

We lost my first son, Garron, at 23w, before I knew I had IC.

Bedrest is the only other thing I can do- the question is- will it work? I am terrified. I am laying down, or in a recliner, my husband has elevated the foot of the bed-- and I only get up for the bathroom or a quick shower a couple of times a week. I just feel so helpless.

I have my next TVU on Tuesday, and I used to look so forward to these appointments, but I am so scared. I lost SO much length, so quickly. Why is this pregnancy SO different than last?

TIA for any advice.

 

[Prayerfulmom2]

I have spent DAYS, literally, reading this thread from day 1. I am on SBR, so have nothing but time! I am almost 18w, so am in for the long haul

I wanted to introduce myself- my name is Aubrey, and we live in Maine.

I am 17w+ 4 today with a preventative cerclage placed at 13w. I started taking the p17 shots last week. My CL has been good- 3.2-4.1.

This week- 2.0.

I had been taking it easy, but not on bedrest. I am so totally freaked out. They hooked me up for contractions- none- and haven't felt any. No infection, no bacterial vaginosis, no increased discharge, no bleeding, nothin'.

My dr said to just stay down, which I will, obviously. He said the cervix is dymanic (I know) and he wasn't concerned with one reading, expecially since I have no other signs. I was a little more active this week, but no insanely so.

The baby is doing great- no issues with her.

I should mention this is my 2nd cerclage- my first cerclage baby went to 41w. I was on pretty strict bedrest, just in case, and though I bounced around a bit, I was never lower than 2.3 and that was much later in the pregnancy. The bedrest was more preventative last time, but this time, not so much.

We lost my first son, Garron, at 23w, before I knew I had IC.

Bedrest is the only other thing I can do- the question is- will it work? I am terrified. I am laying down, or in a recliner, my husband has elevated the foot of the bed-- and I only get up for the bathroom or a quick shower a couple of times a week. I just feel so helpless.

I have my next TVU on Tuesday, and I used to look so forward to these appointments, but I am so scared. I lost SO much length, so quickly. Why is this pregnancy SO different than last?

TIA for any advice.

Hey garronsmom, welcome. I'm no pro but I have IC. I have a 26 and 28 Weeker. Second one with an emergency cerclage at 17 weeks 1 day. My only advice to you is not to worry about your Cl. Look for signs of complications like contractions, fluid leaking, bleeding... I went from bulging membranes, to cerclage to Cl of 1.2 then .5 then .4... Point is, you can carry with no cervix. Your length isn't bad. The fact you carried to 41 weeks before is amazing and it can be done again. The ladies on here will tell you how bedrest has practically delayed delivery for them... Me included. As a suggestion. Throw those legs up as much as possible. Cl can go up and down so no worries. I grew 1.2 cm at one point. Besides every tech that does your measurement is different. I wouldn't worry yet Hun. What I would have given for a Cl of 2. Try and take it easy for another 9-10 weeks or so when baby has a great chance . Read books, visit us, pray( if you believe in it), watch tv, look at baby stuff.... Pass time it's hard, I know, but think of your41 Weeker and picture yourself doing it all over again. Also, ask your dr about the progesterone pessaries ( vaginal suppository) i was on it and was told it can increase Cl give it a try. ** all the best***

 

[Mommy's Angel]

I have spent DAYS, literally, reading this thread from day 1. I am on SBR, so have nothing but time! I am almost 18w, so am in for the long haul

I wanted to introduce myself- my name is Aubrey, and we live in Maine.

I am 17w+ 4 today with a preventative cerclage placed at 13w. I started taking the p17 shots last week. My CL has been good- 3.2-4.1.

This week- 2.0.

I had been taking it easy, but not on bedrest. I am so totally freaked out. They hooked me up for contractions- none- and haven't felt any. No infection, no bacterial vaginosis, no increased discharge, no bleeding, nothin'.

My dr said to just stay down, which I will, obviously. He said the cervix is dymanic (I know) and he wasn't concerned with one reading, expecially since I have no other signs. I was a little more active this week, but no insanely so.

The baby is doing great- no issues with her.

I should mention this is my 2nd cerclage- my first cerclage baby went to 41w. I was on pretty strict bedrest, just in case, and though I bounced around a bit, I was never lower than 2.3 and that was much later in the pregnancy. The bedrest was more preventative last time, but this time, not so much.

We lost my first son, Garron, at 23w, before I knew I had IC.

Bedrest is the only other thing I can do- the question is- will it work? I am terrified. I am laying down, or in a recliner, my husband has elevated the foot of the bed-- and I only get up for the bathroom or a quick shower a couple of times a week. I just feel so helpless.

I have my next TVU on Tuesday, and I used to look so forward to these appointments, but I am so scared. I lost SO much length, so quickly. Why is this pregnancy SO different than last?

TIA for any advice.

You and I had pretty similar experiences. I lost my son at 22wks when we also didn't know we had IC. Our daughter Amelia I had to fight for the stitch but was given 17P injections from the getgo. They weren't convinced I had IC until my length dwindled around the same time it started with our son. My firm arguing to be monitored was what saved her. At any rate, bed rest is GREAT.

Drink LOTS Of water. I can't remember why but maybe Lizzie can chime in with that reason. All I know is that hydrating works. Also bed rest works. You'll find your cervical length will fluctuate A LOT! Again, Lizzie can help but I think once you have your cerclage and all is closed shut, that won't really matter. Keep on bed rest, lots of water and I'm willing to bet you'll see it go up in a few weeks. Keep in mind it could fluctuate again so don't let that freak you out.

I'm actually trying for another one myself right now. I look forward to getting to know you though sorry under these circumstances. What I like about this board is that we have such threads like this with women who are all going through similar experiences. You are not alone!

 

[garronsmom]

I have spent DAYS, literally, reading this thread from day 1. I am on SBR, so have nothing but time! I am almost 18w, so am in for the long haul

I wanted to introduce myself- my name is Aubrey, and we live in Maine.

I am 17w+ 4 today with a preventative cerclage placed at 13w. I started taking the p17 shots last week. My CL has been good- 3.2-4.1.

This week- 2.0.

I had been taking it easy, but not on bedrest. I am so totally freaked out. They hooked me up for contractions- none- and haven't felt any. No infection, no bacterial vaginosis, no increased discharge, no bleeding, nothin'.

My dr said to just stay down, which I will, obviously. He said the cervix is dymanic (I know) and he wasn't concerned with one reading, expecially since I have no other signs. I was a little more active this week, but no insanely so.

The baby is doing great- no issues with her.

I should mention this is my 2nd cerclage- my first cerclage baby went to 41w. I was on pretty strict bedrest, just in case, and though I bounced around a bit, I was never lower than 2.3 and that was much later in the pregnancy. The bedrest was more preventative last time, but this time, not so much.

We lost my first son, Garron, at 23w, before I knew I had IC.

Bedrest is the only other thing I can do- the question is- will it work? I am terrified. I am laying down, or in a recliner, my husband has elevated the foot of the bed-- and I only get up for the bathroom or a quick shower a couple of times a week. I just feel so helpless.

I have my next TVU on Tuesday, and I used to look so forward to these appointments, but I am so scared. I lost SO much length, so quickly. Why is this pregnancy SO different than last?

TIA for any advice.

Hey garronsmom, welcome. I'm no pro but I have IC. I have a 26 and 28 Weeker. Second one with an emergency cerclage at 17 weeks 1 day. My only advice to you is not to worry about your Cl. Look for signs of complications like contractions, fluid leaking, bleeding... I went from bulging membranes, to cerclage to Cl of 1.2 then .5 then .4... Point is, you can carry with no cervix. Your length isn't bad. The fact you carried to 41 weeks before is amazing and it can be done again. The ladies on here will tell you how bedrest has practically delayed delivery for them... Me included. As a suggestion. Throw those legs up as much as possible. Cl can go up and down so no worries. I grew 1.2 cm at one point. Besides every tech that does your measurement is different. I wouldn't worry yet Hun. What I would have given for a Cl of 2. Try and take it easy for another 9-10 weeks or so when baby has a great chance . Read books, visit us, pray( if you believe in it), watch tv, look at baby stuff.... Pass time it's hard, I know, but think of your41 Weeker and picture yourself doing it all over again. Also, ask your dr about the progesterone pessaries ( vaginal suppository) i was on it and was told it can increase Cl give it a try. ** all the best***

Thank you for your response! I think its the amount of length I lost in such a short time, and so early on! Can one do a pessary WITH a cerclage?

I had been in a recliner a lot since my last check, but found it too difficult to get up & down from it- so bed it is.