Bittersweet
Complete(Boy/Girl)after losses and premature birth
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So my cat is indoor. I got her as a rescue she is 2 and has been indoor all her life. She's very affectionate and enjoys cuddles but also doesn't mind being left alone for a few hours.
Everyone keeps telling me it's cruel to go against her instinct and to let her out and she would find her way back.
She freaks every time the front door is open, although she does like to sit at the window when it is open a little. We live right next to a building site and there are so many cats around. My friend told me that she will become territorial and would eventually wreck my house as she would want to be out. Also I would ruin her as she would become too attached to me and oh and therefore she should be out.
I just feel she is safer indoors like she has been brought up. We have a good sized house so she runs around all the rooms, I rotate her toys and play with her and she is good at playing alone as well. Just wanted some opinions. I was dead set against letting her out but now I'm feeling so guilty! I have considered another cat to stop her becoming too attached but I don't want to stress her and two cats is expensive and a bigger commitment. Also, if I got another cat this cat would too be indoors as she is but then is it cruel? Some people say it depends on the cat on how well they do indoors.
Everyone keeps telling me it's cruel to go against her instinct and to let her out and she would find her way back.
She freaks every time the front door is open, although she does like to sit at the window when it is open a little. We live right next to a building site and there are so many cats around. My friend told me that she will become territorial and would eventually wreck my house as she would want to be out. Also I would ruin her as she would become too attached to me and oh and therefore she should be out.
I just feel she is safer indoors like she has been brought up. We have a good sized house so she runs around all the rooms, I rotate her toys and play with her and she is good at playing alone as well. Just wanted some opinions. I was dead set against letting her out but now I'm feeling so guilty! I have considered another cat to stop her becoming too attached but I don't want to stress her and two cats is expensive and a bigger commitment. Also, if I got another cat this cat would too be indoors as she is but then is it cruel? Some people say it depends on the cat on how well they do indoors.