Introduction (:

[tinysteph]

I'm Stephanie, I'm 16, and I live in Florida.
I only found out I was pregnant a few weeks ago.

I'm only 4 weeks and 4 days pregnant

I've decided to give the baby up for adoption once I have it because even though I can't bring myself to have an abortion, I also know I'm too immature to raise it on my own. The father has only been my boyfriend of a month and even though hes standing by whatever I choose to do, I dont want to tie him down. So because I'm giving the baby away, we can go our separate ways afterwards too if thats what ends up happening.

As of now I'm living with my dad because my mom kicked me out. She wanted the abortion and when I told her I wasn't gonna do it she pushed me right out the door. My dad's more understanding of my choice because he was adopted from a teenage mom.

I'm trying to keep the pregnancy a secret but somehow this girl I hate found out and she actually started tweeting it... so my secrets obviously leaking, and I really dont know how Im gonna deal with people judging me over it. The thought of it really has been stressing me out.

Actually everythings been stressing me out, my grades have gone to hell and Ive been gaining weight and feeling nauseous and wanting to just yell at everyone. So far its not been fun at all and I can only assume itll get worse from here.

So yeah long story over, thats my introduction. Hi

 

[lil lovey]

Hi welcome to bnb. Don't listen to what people will say. People judge wether you do good or bad stay strong. I'm glad you didn't get an A done and decided on Adoption. Adoption is not an easy thing to do but if you think its best for the baby then you doing the right thing. Really sorry your mom kicked you out.
Oh yeah my name is Lovey,17 and expecting my first,its a boy

 

[ClairAye]

:wave: Welcome My name is Clair, I'm 18 and I have a 6 and a half month old son called Jason I actually fell pregnant at 16 but I turned 17 around 9-10 weeks!

Adoption is such a brave choice and it's a very mature choice to make I hope everything works out and that you have a H&H 9 months!

 

[xVAP]

Hi, Welcome to BnB.
I'm Voilet, i'm 17 and I'm 11 weeks with my first.

I'm sorry your circumstances are not the best to give you the opportunity to raise a child. Regardless, it is very mature of you to give your baby a better life than you can offer him/her, and to give other parents the amazing gift of a baby.

I'm sorry the girl you dont like found out - you should've been allowed to tell people in your own time. I'm also sorry your mum isnt being supportive. I hope you start to feel less stressed soon. I'm here if you ever need to chat.

 

[littlemommy]

Hi I'm Desiree I'm 19 and I have a 5month old baby girl named Aubrii adoption is a very mature choice! congrats and good luck on your pregnancy!

 

[lunar]

Hi Stephanie, it sounds as though you've really made up your mind, I hope it all goes well for you! I'm Carissa, 20, and my son is 6 weeks old.

I'm so sorry your mom kicked you out! I'm also sorry to say that because of our young age, we're going to be judged a lot. You get used to the stares (I stopped noticing them!) but once in a while you'll get someone who can't stop looking.. So don't hesitate to stare right back at them! Don't be ashamed/embarrassed; after all, what's done is done and no stranger knows your personality!

Congrats, &I hope everything goes smoothly for you.