The reason I ask is that I saw my oh's uncle & aunt yesterday that have an 8 month old girl and I was so nervous about holding her! I was worried in case I dropped her or hurt her. I've never really been around many babies as although I have a large family I'm one of the youngest and I'm an only child. I felt so happy though when I saw my OH holding her, he looked so happy and at ease and I know that he will make a fantastic Daddy Will I still feel the same when I have my own? I really hope not, I don't want to be scared of holding my own child.