Is anyone single & preg?

[Xbryoni&bumpX]

I wasnt when i found out and split up with the dad this week and its hard already with the hormones without having to be on my own, anyone going through similar things?

 

[Always&4ever]

I'm still with the father (were married) but just wanted to say, that I understand its hard but you can do it hun, just have faith in yourself.

 

[Xbryoni&bumpX]

Thankyou i hope i will this the forum and the bump will help me through hopefully lol

 

[xarlenex]

Lotsa people go through this on there own, and I dont know how difficult it will be (I'm still with my partner) but just keep remembering your doing it for you and baby and it will make you so much stronger!

 

[Xbryoni&bumpX]

Yh im trying to look at the bright side that im guna have a beautiful baby and at least the fathers going to stick around for me and the baby, just dont want to see him at the mo.

 

[xarlenex]

do you mind me asking if yous split up because the pregnancy? or was it other reasons? It might take some time before you can be around him as friends comfortably.

 

[xxleannexx]

Hiya just to let you kno that i am in the same position as you, i wasnt single when i found out i was pregnant but i am now, however the babies dad is still going to be very involved in her life and we still meet regularly. But it is hard not having anyone thats there for you to comfort and love you i suppose.

I have all faith that we will cope just fine thought

 

[Xbryoni&bumpX]

erm it was partly because of the preg, he is from Dubai and he has been a student here for 2 and a half years and we bin 2gether for that wen i found out his reaction was happy and posotive, but the next day he went home and i didnt here from him for 3 weeks and then he phoned me and said hes waiting for me 2 have an abortion i said why he said i dont want my baby 2 be on the other side of the world(which i can totally understand) then he was ok but my mum had a few words to say 2 him bout leaving me on my own through this and after that he said he had no feelings for me at all, in a way i feel angry with myself for telling my mum, but i needed someone to tell it really hurt me.
I hope i can become friends with him, i love him dearly but maybe its just time he needs im just trying not to get my hopes up.

 

[xarlenex]

Telling your mum was the right thing to do I think. You need someone to talk to and im guessing its her natural instinct to be angry at him for up and leaving to dubai. And then to turn and say he has no feelings for you would get her angry too. I hope in time he can come around to being a dad and come back and help support yous x

 

[Samo]

Oh hunny, . He wants you to have an abortion because he doesn't want to be on the other side of the world from his child? What a horrible excuse!! I'm sure he sugarcoated that one a bit how unreal. Maybe he will come around the bend, but it is obvious he is not ready for a child at this time. That is so great you have your mum for support, it's what you need! Stay strong and take care of yourself wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy.

 

[Bec&Bump]

I'm in the same boat babe. My baby's dad was over the moon when we found out about the pregnancy, then a few days after my 12 week scan he split up with me and went to Corfu for 3 months.

Hes been back since late October and I've only spoken to him a few times on the phone, he deliberatley goes out of his way to upset me whenever he does speak to me. Hes not been there for me at all and has already proven how much me and the baby mean to him - and hes not a kid either hes 24, he should have grown up a bit by now surely.

Hes a nasty piece of work anyway and I'm not even just saying that being the spiteful ex, but I don't know what to do for the best.

It sounds like you've got the support of your mum, I'm due in 3 weeks and I couldn't have gotten this far if it wasn't for the support of my mum, shes been a diamond. At the end of the day all that matters is the health and happiness of you and your little one. I know your hurting right now, but try to keep your chin up doll, everything will be okay.

 

[emmie]

hey, im going to be a young mum to, though im not alone i some times feel like i am because of the hormones, some men just dnt get it lol. but just think ur the one that is coping with being pregnant and bringing a precious baby into the world thats something to be proud and respected of. gl im always around to chat x.x

 

[Xbryoni&bumpX]

thankyou, yh my mums being great just wish i had him for some emotional support, i hope i can get over this its just hard at the mo, with all these new hormones and feelings but im sure i will get there.

 

[sleepinbeauty]

you know what? you're going to have your baby and if he isn't reponsible enough to be around then he is missing out. You can do it, so many moms are young moms. It is hard work, but I hear it's totally worth it! good luck.

 

[Younglutonmum]

Hiya sweetie

Im 12 weeks pregnant n single. I find it really hard. I love my babys dad so much but he is being a total ass! Im going through the angry phase right now!!

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[leeanne]

I commend you all! Being a single mother can be tough but many in the world have done it, and done it well

If the father doesn't want anything to do with the blessed baby, that is definitely his loss!

Bless you all!

 

[lauren-kate]

Hey I'm kinda in the after stage of the situation you're in. I wasn't with Ryan's dad for most of the pregnancy, and we're not together now. Just letting you know that it is possible and that you do get through it. It's definately hard work, but very rewarding. I'm glad that your baby's dad has still decided to stick around and help - it makes things that little bit easier. xx

 

[Younglutonmum]

Totally agree with Leeanne. It's the fathers loss! I just have 2 remember that when im feeling down!

One they these so called men will regret there actions

__X

 

[mBLACK]

I split up with the father ages ago. It's hard, but not impossible. In all honesty I think sometimes it's easier without the father, there pissing you off all the time and whatnot lol.

 

[nikky0907]

single,pregnant and feeling fine about it...